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Re: Selfishness

07/23/07 04:03 PM

Stbx is also extremely selfish...at this point I don't mind if he's selfish about things involving me but it's really hard for me to understand being selfish about things involving our children. My two children have attended a private parochial school throughout their schooling...daughter will be attending the public high school this year but son will be in 7th grade at the parochial school so stbx and I are splitting the tuition. His live in gf has decided that she wants her children to go to this school as well...the idiot woman has no money but if stbx wants to spend his on her kids then so be it...not my problem. However if she put her kids in my son's school...and he's an EXTREMELY sensitive child...then the situation would be in his face every day so I have been furious about it...especially since all stbx's ever done is complain about paying the tuition for his own children. Turns out that I most probably have nothing to worry about...my aunt is in charge of admissions and she told me that since neither of them are participating members of the church parish, the tuition would be over double what we're paying for our son. I can't imagine him paying that price willingly. To me the whole situation is extremely selfish and totally based on making his gf happy (you know, she doesn't want my kids to get anything her kids can't have) and would have hurt our son.

On another note, I've met the most amazing, least selfish man ever. A friend of mine set us up and we literally talk for hours every day. We are taking things incredibly slow (I almost can't believe how slow LOL!)but last night he told me that he's never met anyone like me and that he thanked my friend for introducing us the other day. He's a quiet, gentle man so it was really hard for him to open himself up to me like he did. Honestly, I've never met anyone like him either. I don't know what's going to happen with this but I just know that I love spending time with him no matter what we're doing.

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Selfishness	CiCi	07/22/07 09:28 AM
Re: Selfishness	NancyD	07/23/07 07:27 PM
Re: Selfishness	yregna	07/23/07 02:06 PM
Balderdash!	Curmudgeon	07/23/07 07:47 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/23/07 04:44 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/23/07 04:33 PM
Re: Selfishness	freedom123	07/23/07 04:03 PM
Re: Selfishness	PhoenixRising	07/22/07 03:47 PM
Re: Selfishness	CiCi	07/22/07 10:57 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 08:05 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 04:22 PM
Re: Selfishness	PhoenixRising	07/22/07 05:19 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 05:36 PM
Re: Selfishness	KiwiGirl	07/22/07 03:34 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 08:02 PM
Re: Selfishness	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 11:46 AM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 01:57 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 02:29 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 05:43 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 06:06 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 07:17 PM
I did!	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 08:15 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 07:30 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 08:38 PM
Re: Selfishness	willybillie	07/22/07 08:53 PM
Re: Selfishness	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 09:56 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 10:04 PM
Re: Selfishness	CiCi	07/22/07 10:48 PM
Disappointment!	Curmudgeon	07/22/07 11:11 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 07:49 PM
Re: Selfishness	Patrice	07/22/07 06:22 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 06:32 PM
Re: Selfishness	willybillie	07/22/07 06:40 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 07:05 PM
Re: Selfishness	1004SRS	07/22/07 06:39 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 02:38 PM
Re: Selfishness	1004SRS	07/22/07 01:55 PM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 10:53 AM
Re: Selfishness	Karen1	07/22/07 11:32 AM
Re: Selfishness	LadyBugRN	07/22/07 01:55 PM
Re: Selfishness	Sherron	07/22/07 11:48 AM
Re: Selfishness	Patrice	07/22/07 12:40 PM
Re: Selfishness	Badasp	07/22/07 01:14 PM
Re: Selfishness	willybillie	07/22/07 02:02 PM

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