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CiCi
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Re: Youn g and Divorced

07/30/07 09:52 AM

I don't know that you can truly say you made a poor choice the first time around. I mean, at the time, you clearly didn't think she was a poor choice or you wouldn't have married her then. Of course, things had changed for you over the course of your marriage - but that's all hindsight. I'm certain you have made choices in yoru life that have turned out well, so it's not really fair to say that you don't know if you'll "ever" be able to trust your decision making skills again! Cut yourself a little slack, OK.

Trust, however, is a very big hurdle to jump over post divorce. So, the question is...how are you going to learn how to trust again? What are some of the tactics that you'll employ to get yourself back to a healthy state of mind? Counseling? Friendships? Faith? Life experiences?

I think that wanting closeness with someone is NORMAL and very human...it's understandable. Why can't you have some closeness with someone without having to jump in with both feet? What if you could date someone, take it slowly and STILL feel the closeness you are missing. You don't have to marry the next person you date, right?!?

Hang in there, buddy. Life is just about to begin again for you!!!

Hugs,
CiCi

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Young and Divorced	ObiOne	07/27/07 05:35 PM
Re: Young and Divorced	overtherainbow	08/12/07 09:14 PM
In some respects...	Curmudgeon	07/28/07 05:41 PM
Re: In some respects...	LadyBugRN	07/29/07 09:43 AM
Re: In some respects...	txks1151	07/29/07 10:22 AM
Re: In some respects...	willybillie	07/29/07 10:51 AM
Re: In some respects...	Curmudgeon	07/29/07 10:16 AM
Re: In some respects...	LadyBugRN	07/29/07 01:28 PM
Re: In some respects...	txks1151	07/29/07 02:13 PM
Re: In some respects...	1004SRS	07/29/07 02:41 PM
Re: In some respects...	txks1151	07/28/07 06:01 PM
Re: In some respects...	Badasp	07/29/07 01:20 AM
Re: Youn g and Divorced	overtherainbow	07/28/07 08:08 PM
Re: Youn g and Divorced	ObiOne	07/30/07 12:22 AM
Re: Youn g and Divorced	CiCi	07/30/07 09:52 AM
Re: Youn g and Divorced	ObiOne	07/30/07 05:20 PM
Re: Youn g and Divorced	PhoenixRising	07/30/07 07:44 PM
Re: Young and Divorced	BeckaLeigh	07/28/07 12:03 AM
Re: Young and Divorced	CiCi	07/28/07 10:18 AM
Re: Young and Divorced	Karen1	07/28/07 11:08 AM
Re: Young and Divorced	PhoenixRising	07/28/07 12:05 PM
Re: Young and Divorced	Karen1	07/28/07 05:24 PM
Re: Young and Divorced	overtherainbow	07/27/07 07:46 PM
Re: Young and Divorced	1004SRS	07/29/07 07:46 AM
Re: Young and Divorced	LadyBugRN	07/29/07 01:18 PM

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