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Tim_M
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Reged: 07/15/07
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Re: Actually, you do have an out...
      07/30/07 01:07 PM

Yes, we had an agreement in writing, but there was no expiration date or termination terms.

According to Missouri law, once she filed for divorce, she MUST go through a process in court to take my daughter across state lines. She must first file a motion with the court, and then he must schedule a hearing a minimum of 60 days after the motion to hear all sides of the argument. During that 60 day minimum, she MUST keep my daughter inside the state of Missouri.

My attorney has already prepared a motion to the judge to order her immediate return, pending a hearing. He tells me that the judge WOULd order her immediate return, pending the hearing, and that the final outcome may well be in my favor, because Missouri law encourages both parents to remain involved in their children's lives, and she would have a high burden of proof to show why taking my daughter so far away, across state lines, would be in the best interest of the child. The judge probably will not be pleased with her taking the child across state lines to begin with. My attorney will wait for her to renege on her agreement. (He is also looking into federal issues, as well.)

I talked to a realtor familiar with our farm, and he agrees that it has serious negative equity problems (there is a land depression here.) But he will work on listing it (through our attorney's) just in case, and to help keep my *&$%&## wife of my back.

Meanwhile, I just now learned that there aren't even any homeless shelters here. I would truly be homeless...

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* Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M 07/18/07 08:37 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/18/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse googledad   07/18/07 11:04 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/19/07 09:09 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/19/07 05:15 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/19/07 07:56 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/19/07 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/19/07 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/19/07 05:42 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/19/07 05:48 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/19/07 05:46 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/02/07 01:35 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/02/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/02/07 07:09 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse April9418   08/06/07 06:20 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/06/07 06:40 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 11:21 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/09/07 06:10 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/10/07 09:01 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/11/07 09:50 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 04:27 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/11/07 07:28 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 08:48 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/11/07 10:53 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 03:59 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/11/07 07:09 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/12/07 10:22 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/12/07 12:00 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/12/07 12:48 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/12/07 03:14 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/12/07 08:22 PM
. * * I have an unrelated question... almostheaven   08/12/07 09:06 PM
. * * Re: I have an unrelated question... Tim_M   08/12/07 09:19 PM
. * * Re: I have an unrelated question... almostheaven   08/12/07 10:47 PM
. * * BTW... almostheaven   08/12/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/13/07 04:15 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/13/07 06:32 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/13/07 06:46 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/13/07 08:01 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/13/07 10:37 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/16/07 11:04 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/16/07 12:28 PM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/17/07 08:08 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/17/07 08:38 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/17/07 12:24 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 08:01 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 10:09 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: BTW... almostheaven   08/18/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 10:53 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/18/07 11:11 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 11:29 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 11:48 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 02:07 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 02:46 PM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/19/07 11:23 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/29/07 07:42 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/30/07 07:23 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   09/29/07 08:47 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   09/30/07 07:40 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   09/30/07 09:30 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   09/30/07 09:57 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   11/13/07 05:49 PM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/18/07 11:41 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 11:15 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:39 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   08/09/07 05:22 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:14 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   08/09/07 06:25 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:40 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 01:02 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/09/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:47 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/10/07 08:58 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/10/07 01:44 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/10/07 03:50 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/10/07 07:59 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/09/07 05:15 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   08/09/07 05:23 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/20/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/20/07 06:16 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/20/07 08:42 PM
. * * CANCEL THEM!!!!!! almostheaven   07/20/07 08:45 PM
. * * Not to mention... almostheaven   07/20/07 08:46 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/20/07 08:49 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... almostheaven   07/20/07 08:54 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/20/07 09:00 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/20/07 09:04 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Relayer   07/21/07 04:04 AM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/21/07 11:55 AM
. * * Exactly... almostheaven   07/21/07 08:26 PM
. * * Re: Exactly... Relayer   07/22/07 05:34 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/20/07 08:01 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/20/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/20/07 10:25 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/19/07 05:48 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 10:13 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 01:50 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/12/07 09:36 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse jaiye   07/23/07 08:50 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/23/07 09:04 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   07/29/07 06:00 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/29/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   07/29/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/29/07 08:43 PM
. * * As an aside... almostheaven   07/29/07 09:21 PM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 06:07 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... almostheaven   07/30/07 11:18 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Tim_M   07/30/07 06:10 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 06:30 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Tim_M   07/30/07 06:36 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 08:02 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Tim_M   07/30/07 08:54 AM
. * * Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/30/07 11:20 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 11:29 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/30/07 12:50 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 01:07 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/30/07 01:39 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 04:05 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/30/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/30/07 06:55 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 07:29 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/30/07 10:07 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 05:31 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 09:44 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 10:13 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 11:09 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:20 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 07:33 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:04 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:21 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:21 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 12:24 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:22 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:36 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:36 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 12:47 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 01:22 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 01:46 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 03:33 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 07:28 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 07:37 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 07:39 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:25 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 09:23 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 07:49 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 07:07 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 01:11 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 01:14 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 07:23 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 07:55 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 08:23 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 09:00 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 09:18 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 10:07 PM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 08:56 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   07/29/07 09:07 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 02:43 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 02:55 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 06:17 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 07:14 PM

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