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BetsyR
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Re: OMG!
      07/30/07 11:39 PM

Of course this is awful, but I think you'll do much better in court if you're calm & collected. Just give the judge the facts & try these lines on for size:
-- no ma'am, I didn't know about the refinancing. Please note that his name is the only one of the loans he took out since he left me.
-- your honor, he used to contribute $6000/mo. toward our household bills, but now it's only $1000/mo, so I wonder if perhaps he's hiding it (remember, you don't know for sure what he did w/ the money, so say only what you do know)
-- well, judge, I may have said some unwise things in the heat of the moment, but of course I don't really want him to go to jail! I'm now calmly working towards a fair split of the marital assets.

Why say you're going after his license??? It makes you look like a person who bites off her nose to spite her face.

Edited by BetsyR (07/30/07 11:42 PM)

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* OMG! emilar 07/30/07 07:43 PM
. * * Re: OMG! BetsyR   07/30/07 11:39 PM
. * * Re: OMG! emilar   07/31/07 12:11 AM
. * * Re: OMG! Relayer   07/31/07 07:22 AM
. * * Re: OMG! emilar   07/31/07 09:34 AM
. * * Re: OMG! Relayer   07/31/07 09:42 AM
. * * Re: OMG! emilar   07/31/07 09:51 AM
. * * Re: OMG! Relayer   07/31/07 03:21 PM
. * * Re: OMG! emilar   07/31/07 06:06 PM
. * * Re: OMG! BetsyR   08/01/07 03:18 PM
. * * Re: OMG! matart1   08/01/07 04:58 PM
. * * Re: OMG! emilar   08/01/07 05:47 PM
. * * Re: OMG! emilar   07/31/07 02:46 PM

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