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Re: My vent
      08/06/07 11:33 PM

I am a mechanic. I get really rattled when people come in with a problem (generally men) and say "I'd fix it myself but I don't have the time" (then they stay there and watch me work) or they say I'd do it myself but I don't have the tool(s)" So I decided that I must simply be a brain dead moron with tools and time!!!

I have long said that I was gonna put that on a shirt or change the name of my shop to it. Sorta has a ring to it...
Brain Dead Morons With Tools And Time

What does that make all of us divorcees with all of this advice? I used to joke about someone who was divorced giving me marital advice! I was so smug. I really believed that I had done all the right things to protect and insulate my world from what it seems it is/has become now.
I really understand that one cannot do it. It takes two, two who really want it and have the maturity, foresight, wearwithall and everything else involved to stay the course. To rough the bad weather for the sunshine. To be able to realize that no one is perfect nor will they stay the same, and just love them anyway. Ok, I apologize, I started to wander there. Well actually wandered a pretty good bit.

What then is understanding gained, when the very means that rendered the understanding makes it obsolete?

How about a shirt that says......
Never, Never, Ever, say Never!!!

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"living, learning, from my creator. you gave me life now show me how to live" c. cornell

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. * * Re: My vent willybillie   08/05/07 07:56 PM
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. * * Re: My vent Melanie1   08/07/07 09:03 AM
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. * * Re: My vent Debi   08/06/07 09:59 PM
. * * Re: My vent JustMeAndThree   08/09/07 07:15 AM
. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/09/07 07:38 AM
. * * Re: My vent Debi   08/09/07 08:21 AM
. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/09/07 10:36 AM
. * * Excuse me but KiwiGirl   08/11/07 10:24 PM
. * * Re: Excuse me but NancyD   08/12/07 05:06 PM
. * * I am missing out KiwiGirl   08/12/07 07:54 PM
. * * Re: I am missing out Drew   08/12/07 11:21 PM
. * * Re: My vent Debi   08/09/07 11:38 AM
. * * Re: My vent Badasp   08/06/07 11:06 PM
. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/06/07 11:33 PM
. * * Re: My vent Redlegg   08/07/07 04:54 AM
. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/07/07 07:43 AM
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. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/07/07 01:23 PM
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. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/07/07 07:08 PM
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. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/07/07 07:34 PM
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. * * Re: My vent Redlegg   08/07/07 04:13 PM
. * * Re: My vent willybillie   08/07/07 04:26 PM
. * * Re: My vent Melanie1   08/07/07 09:01 AM
. * * Re: My vent Drew   08/06/07 09:27 AM
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. * * Re: My vent willybillie   08/05/07 06:20 PM
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. * * Re: My vent willybillie   08/05/07 09:46 PM
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. * * Re: My vent willybillie   08/07/07 04:25 PM
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