Redlegg
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Re: My vent
08/07/07 04:54 AM
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What then is understanding gained, when the very means that rendered the understanding makes it obsolete?
You have to take into account that you are a professional mechanic, what takes you one hour would take me 6, so I don't have the time is truer than you realize. And depending on the type of repair, I probably don't have the tool. I trust your judgement and expertise so much more than I do my own. Chances are you will get it right the first time, that chance is a lot lower when I do it by myself. Don't discount those sayings so much. I would have done my own divorce if I had the time and knowledge, but as with the car, I leave it to those who know best.
Any knowledge you gained through your marriage and divorce is not rendered obsolete. It only becomes that when you don't look back and learn. The difference between someone who has been married once and is still happily married and the person is divorced is their perspective. You have seen it both ways so you have a greater knowledge of the down side, and that is never obsolete. Your advice can help others who may be headed down that road because you have seen things they have not and are better able to recognize them. I also believe, that having gone through a divorce, I am better prepared for that next relationship.
Maybe the understanding you gained is actually wisdom and that never becomes obsolete.
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