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Adultry?
08/08/07 01:44 PM
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I am in NY. I met my bf when he was still with his wife. They had an open marriage. She would make dates for me and her husband.
She left him shortly after and moved in with one of the guys she was "dating". This was in 2003. He asked her back around 7 times in a year and each time she said no. She was having the time of her life and telling him all about it. Finally he told her that he was moving on with me. And she freaked!
He lived in the marital residence for a year and then he finally let her have it. She kept saying it was her house, she picked it out and she was still coming and going so the kids had a yard to play in during the day (she's SAHM and her bf's apartment didn't have a yard).
So bf got his own apartment and they had joint custody. Then the wind blew in an opposite direction and she filed for full custody and he let her have it. With the added CS (he was also paying child support to ex#1) he couldn't afford his apartment and he moved in with me.
Fast forward 4 years and they still aren't legally anything. BF filed for divorce over a year ago and she refuses to get an attorney and get things moving.
BF and I had a son who was born in April. She had a fit and said she's filing for adultry and taking him to the cleaners and going to get him in trouble with the military. She said he was VERY disrespectful for getting me pregnant while married to her. She signed her emails "Mrs. So and So".
She is no longer with the guy she left the marriage for, but she has it all over her myspace that she has been with her bf for 3 years and how she left an abusive marriage.
So can she really get him in trouble for adultry? I'm thinking no since it was an open marriage and she knew everything... plus she is now in this relationship. So technically she is also commiting adultry since she's still married. They don't live together, but she writes about their weekends together (it's a LD relationship).
Sorry to be so long. Just curious because bf is so scared and thinks she can really get him into trouble.
Thanks!
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