Redlegg
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Re: State of Mind
08/10/07 10:20 AM
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You will slowly see your point of view change over time. It is competive, after all you are talking about your child, but trust me, if someone were to ask her where home is, she would point to your house. Fun is fun, but home is home. Right now you are the victim, but I don't think in the literal sense. After my divorce, the divorce was the focus, the why did I deserve that metality, she was selfish, and hurtful in what she did. No remorse, and that just menat how must she have not cared to do that and have no remorse, where is the fairness of that, where is the judge saying she was a bad person, where was the sympathy other victims get. I don't know how to explain it, but over time it just starts to not matter, its like the weather report, I can watch it or not, won't change the weather. I am still not sure I will forgive mine for what she did, but I know its becoming less visible in my life as time goes on. One day you will wake up and you will wonder, why was that so important to me back then, and you will look forward and see a future you can smile about. The days are good, and I am glad you are excited about your new job.
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