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emilar
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Re: Reversed role emotional abuse
      08/11/07 07:09 PM

Tim,
Listen to Relayer. I know you are justified in your narcotic use, but it's not something the general public looks kindly on. Your already facing an uphill battle, because she has thrown abuser out there. And the journal entries by your daughter don't sound too good either. Teens have a lot of angst, and stuff like that can kill a custody fight for a father. I feel real bad about your abuse, but thats something you will have to tone down as well. Get counseling, but don't talk about that stuff in court. They won't give you your kids if they think you have mental issues and drug issues. There's just no way. Just tone it down, focus on your good points, how much you love your family, and your faith. A loving, moral father, who can raise his children better than their mother, is what you are aiming for. I know you are in a lot of pain- but listen to Relayer, he's a man and can tell you just how it looks. No matter how bad a mother is, the courts will err on her side,if they think theres even the slightest doubt about you.

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* Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M 07/18/07 08:37 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/18/07 07:26 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse googledad   07/18/07 11:04 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/19/07 09:09 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/19/07 05:15 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/19/07 07:56 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/19/07 02:14 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/19/07 03:30 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/19/07 05:42 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/19/07 05:48 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/19/07 05:46 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/02/07 01:35 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/02/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/02/07 07:09 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse April9418   08/06/07 06:20 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/06/07 06:40 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 11:21 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/09/07 06:10 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/10/07 09:01 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/11/07 09:50 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 04:27 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/11/07 07:28 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 08:48 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/11/07 10:53 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 03:59 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/11/07 07:09 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/11/07 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/12/07 10:22 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/12/07 12:00 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/12/07 12:48 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/12/07 03:14 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/12/07 08:22 PM
. * * I have an unrelated question... almostheaven   08/12/07 09:06 PM
. * * Re: I have an unrelated question... Tim_M   08/12/07 09:19 PM
. * * Re: I have an unrelated question... almostheaven   08/12/07 10:47 PM
. * * BTW... almostheaven   08/12/07 10:51 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/13/07 04:15 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/13/07 06:32 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/13/07 06:46 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/13/07 08:01 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/13/07 10:37 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/16/07 11:04 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/16/07 12:28 PM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/17/07 08:08 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/17/07 08:38 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/17/07 12:24 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 08:01 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 10:09 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: BTW... almostheaven   08/18/07 10:15 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 10:53 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/18/07 11:11 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 11:29 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 11:48 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/18/07 02:07 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 02:46 PM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/19/07 11:23 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/29/07 07:42 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   08/30/07 07:23 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   09/29/07 08:47 PM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   09/30/07 07:40 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   09/30/07 09:30 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Tim_M   09/30/07 09:57 AM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   11/13/07 05:49 PM
. * * Re: BTW... emilar   08/18/07 11:41 AM
. * * Re: BTW... Relayer   08/18/07 11:15 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:39 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   08/09/07 05:22 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:14 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   08/09/07 06:25 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:40 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 01:02 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/09/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/09/07 06:47 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/10/07 08:58 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/10/07 01:44 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   08/10/07 03:50 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   08/10/07 07:59 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/09/07 05:15 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   08/09/07 05:23 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/20/07 07:52 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/20/07 06:16 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/20/07 08:42 PM
. * * CANCEL THEM!!!!!! almostheaven   07/20/07 08:45 PM
. * * Not to mention... almostheaven   07/20/07 08:46 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/20/07 08:49 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... almostheaven   07/20/07 08:54 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/20/07 09:00 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/20/07 09:04 PM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Relayer   07/21/07 04:04 AM
. * * Re: Not to mention... Tim_M   07/21/07 11:55 AM
. * * Exactly... almostheaven   07/21/07 08:26 PM
. * * Re: Exactly... Relayer   07/22/07 05:34 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/20/07 08:01 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/20/07 09:20 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/20/07 10:25 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse almostheaven   07/19/07 05:48 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 10:13 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 01:50 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   08/12/07 09:36 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse jaiye   07/23/07 08:50 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/23/07 09:04 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   07/29/07 06:00 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/29/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   07/29/07 08:15 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/29/07 08:43 PM
. * * As an aside... almostheaven   07/29/07 09:21 PM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 06:07 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... almostheaven   07/30/07 11:18 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Tim_M   07/30/07 06:10 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 06:30 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Tim_M   07/30/07 06:36 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 08:02 AM
. * * Re: As an aside... Tim_M   07/30/07 08:54 AM
. * * Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/30/07 11:20 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 11:29 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/30/07 12:50 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 01:07 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/30/07 01:39 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 02:31 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 04:05 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/30/07 10:02 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/30/07 06:55 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 07:29 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/30/07 10:07 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 05:31 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 09:44 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 10:13 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 10:20 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 11:09 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:20 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 07:33 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:04 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:21 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:21 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 12:24 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:22 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:36 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 12:36 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 12:47 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 01:22 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 01:46 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 02:42 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 03:33 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 07:28 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 07:37 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 07:39 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... almostheaven   07/31/07 10:25 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/31/07 09:23 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 07:49 AM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 06:32 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 06:49 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   08/01/07 07:07 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 07:16 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   08/01/07 07:32 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Relayer   07/31/07 01:11 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/31/07 01:14 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 07:23 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 07:33 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 07:55 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 08:23 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 09:00 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... Tim_M   07/30/07 09:18 PM
. * * Re: Actually, you do have an out... emilar   07/30/07 10:07 PM
. * * Re: As an aside... Relayer   07/30/07 08:56 AM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse emilar   07/29/07 09:07 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 02:43 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 02:55 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 04:20 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 06:17 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Relayer   07/18/07 06:43 PM
. * * Re: Reversed role emotional abuse Tim_M   07/18/07 07:14 PM

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