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Re: Do tape records count?
      08/12/07 01:36 PM

I agree with Redlegg.

Recordings are admissable in my area. My first attorney encouraged me to record and even wanted me to let my oldest wear a remote recorder in her mother's presence. (long story with tears as to why but I wouldn't because I didn't want my oldest to have to deal with the potential of having her mother catch her with it).

I recorded more conversations than I have a count for.
My second (actually 3rd, another long story) removed them all from my file and handed them to me when I hired him.
He told me "our" judge would refuse to hear them nor did he give any value to them as evidence.

I had recordings from my home ans. mach. that the children had access to as well. Among these, threats to me and my oldest that included a where, when, and a how. Then I had recorded conversations that included everything from her telling me the longer it took for me to give her what she wanted the more time she would take from the children and I. To her openly admitting that she knew the children wanted to be with me but she would have to hear it from a judge. I have recordings of my children calling me hysterical and screaming, you can hear her screaming(x) and sometimes laughing in the background making comments like"you're savior isn't here, he can't help you now." Then taking the phone from the children and hanging it up. I have countless recordings where you can plainly hear X making the children turn the phone up and requiring that they sit "right here" so she could monitor all of our conversations.

Not one shred of it ever made it to evidence.
Our judge limited the presentation of everything! I had proof of the X's lies on her original affidavit to the court from her first ex-parte appearance. Irrefutable proof. The judge refused to hear any of it.

My experience is, recordings don't count for diddly, irregardless of consent or content. Talk to your attorney.

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* Do tape records count? diddy 08/11/07 04:23 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? BeckaLeigh   08/12/07 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Drew   08/12/07 11:04 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Debi   08/11/07 06:40 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? googledad   08/11/07 05:58 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? diddy   08/11/07 10:01 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Debi   08/11/07 10:26 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? googledad   08/11/07 11:19 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Relayer   08/12/07 06:17 AM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? diddy   08/12/07 06:53 AM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Redlegg   08/12/07 09:06 AM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Drew   08/12/07 01:36 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? diddy   08/12/07 07:12 PM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Relayer   08/12/07 11:31 AM
. * * Re: Do tape records count? Nov63   11/09/07 08:45 PM

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