Start Your Divorce Today - Premium Divorce Online


Divorce Source Community Forums >> Life After Divorce

PhoenixRising
Carpal \'Tunnel
**

Reged: 01/05/07
Posts: 3681
Loc: New York
What should the first questions be?
      08/13/07 09:13 PM

In another thread, Badasp said that the 1st questions that ladies ask are:

1) What do you do for a living?
2) Are you financially independent?
3) What kind of car do you drive?
4) What neighborhood do you live in?
5) What are you going to buy me?


I kind of understand these questions and except for the last one do not find them out of line.

I would be more subtle and not come straight out and ask. I would do it the "high school" way and get the scoop from my friends (I live in a small town).

Regardless of my "methods" it doesn't make the information any less important to me.

1) What do you do for a living
Many of the guys I know are retired or semi-retired. BUT I still want to know what gives them the drive to get up in the morning. I strongly believe in a “Purpose Driven Life” and would only be interested in someone similar.

2) Are you financially independent
Sorry but this would be a showstopper for me. I am not interested in supporting anyone in the style to which they wish to become accustom.

3) What kind of car do you drive
My kids tell me that there are makes of cars that are labeled “mid-life crisis” cars so from that stand point; I believe that cars tell you something of the person. I am a “soccer mom” minivan; that says it all.

4) What neighborhood do you live in
I live on an island. I am not sure this means anything to me. Except anybody from off the island would be “geographically undesirable”.

5) What are you going to buy me
My wish list would include: more ram, a plate joiner and a wet saw but I would be willing to share my tools if he would share his.

--------------------
Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. --Plato

Post Extras Print Post   Remind Me!     Notify Moderator


Entire topic
Subject Posted by Posted on
* What should the first questions be? PhoenixRising 08/13/07 09:13 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? LadyBugRN   08/14/07 02:37 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Debi   08/13/07 10:24 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Curmudgeon   08/13/07 10:00 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/13/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Debi   08/14/07 11:06 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/14/07 08:06 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/14/07 08:26 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/14/07 08:55 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? CiCi   08/15/07 07:21 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? CiCi   08/15/07 07:31 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? AtWitsEnd   08/15/07 07:44 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/15/07 02:01 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? willybillie   08/15/07 03:19 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/16/07 08:37 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Patrice   08/18/07 09:42 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? willybillie   08/18/07 08:08 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? willybillie   08/14/07 10:28 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Drew   08/15/07 12:01 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/14/07 09:02 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/14/07 09:04 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? PhoenixRising   08/14/07 10:24 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/14/07 12:55 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Debi   08/14/07 01:34 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/14/07 02:17 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Debi   08/14/07 02:36 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? PhoenixRising   08/14/07 12:18 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? PhoenixRising   08/14/07 12:25 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/14/07 07:40 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Drew   08/14/07 07:21 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/14/07 03:34 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? PhoenixRising   08/14/07 03:58 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Melanie1   08/14/07 04:21 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? focusedon2   08/13/07 10:36 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/13/07 10:54 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? LadyBugRN   08/14/07 02:45 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? annoyedengland   08/14/07 11:00 AM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/14/07 12:52 PM
. * * No! I got it... Curmudgeon   08/13/07 10:34 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? focusedon2   08/13/07 09:20 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Badasp   08/13/07 09:38 PM
. * * Re: What should the first questions be? Drew   08/13/07 09:37 PM

Extra information
0 registered and 25 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  dsAdmin 



Forum Permissions
      You cannot start new topics
      You cannot reply to topics
      HTML is disabled
      UBBCode is disabled

Rating:
Thread views: 3194

Rate this thread

Jump to

Contact Us Divorce Source Home

*
UBB.threads™ 6.5.1.1


Resources & Tools
Start Your Divorce Online Start Your Divorce
Several Options to Get Started Today.
Divorce Tools Online Divorce Tools
Keeping it Simple to Get the Job Done.
Divorce Downloads Download Center
Instantly Download Books, Guides & Forms.
Divorce and Custody Books Discount Books
Over 100 of the Best Divorce & Custody Books.
Negotiate Online Negotiate Online
Settle your Divorce and Save.
Custody and Support Tracking Custody Scheduling
Make Sure You Document Everything.

Easily Connect With a Lawyer or Mediator
Have Divorce Professionals from Your Area Contact You!
Enter Your Zip Code: