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Re: Finality
      08/15/07 10:37 AM

I've been there. I do have kids. My wife cheated on me, we divorced and she started introducing the kids to the new guy sooner than I would have liked. I had all the thoughts that others have written above about how terrible that was because the kids needed time to adjust to the divorce. In the end, with some time and perspective on my part, I realized that was just a cover. I was using the story that I was worried for the kids to cover up for my own anger, annoyance and feelings of betrayal about the situation. Others can say, "but that is not me; I really am worried about the kids." Maybe so, maybe not, but I am one person who is willing to admit that it was really about me and not the kids.

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* Finality CiCi 08/12/07 09:32 PM
. * * Re: Finality yregna   08/13/07 11:42 AM
. * * There's a difference... Curmudgeon   08/13/07 05:42 PM
. * * Re: There's a difference... CiCi   08/14/07 07:27 AM
. * * Re: There's a difference... PhoenixRising   08/14/07 12:43 PM
. * * Re: There's a difference... Melanie1   08/14/07 04:39 PM
. * * Re: There's a difference... sonnyfla   08/14/07 02:26 PM
. * * Lots of thoughts. Curmudgeon   08/15/07 08:22 AM
. * * Re: Finality CiCi   08/13/07 01:29 PM
. * * Re: Finality Karen1   08/13/07 05:02 PM
. * * Re: Finality PhoenixRising   08/13/07 03:42 PM
. * * Re: Finality sally1234   08/15/07 10:09 AM
. * * Re: Finality Badasp   08/15/07 11:00 AM
. * * Re: Finality annoyedengland   08/14/07 11:07 AM
. * * Re: Finality Melanie1   08/14/07 04:51 PM
. * * Re: Finality madalex   08/15/07 10:37 AM
. * * Re: Finality CiCi   08/15/07 11:22 AM
. * * Re: Finality Badasp   08/15/07 11:36 AM
. * * Re: Finality CiCi   08/15/07 12:44 PM
. * * Re: Finality Badasp   08/15/07 01:05 PM
. * * Re: Finality annoyedengland   08/20/07 04:51 AM
. * * Re: Finality CiCi   08/14/07 03:09 PM
. * * Re: Finality CiCi   08/14/07 03:25 PM
. * * Re: Finality freedom123   08/13/07 04:12 PM
. * * Re: Finality Drew   08/13/07 01:47 PM
. * * Re: Finality Drew   08/13/07 01:12 PM
. * * Re: Finality Melanie1   08/13/07 10:31 AM
. * * Re: Finality PhoenixRising   08/13/07 12:19 AM
. * * Re: Finality LadyBugRN   08/12/07 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Finality Curmudgeon   08/12/07 11:51 PM

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