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matilda
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Re: Sorting it out

08/19/07 10:40 AM

Well, I would look at this about what to do short term and long term. Short term would be to let go the women he's had affairs with. I'd seriously consider only hiring older women(since affairs have been with younger) or men. Next I'd accumulate all data to show assets of business and personal to limit his ability to hide things later on. I'd also consider a separation so that you have space to contemplate if you want to continue the marriage or reconciliation. You also need to make an appointment with your doctor to be tested for STD's.

After the immediate goals are met then I'd look into counseling to help deal with the pain of the betrayal. You need to figure out if given the circumstances you want to divorce, live separately, live as room mates, or work at finding out why the marriage is having problems and fix them.

I'm sure you are on an emotional roller coaster right now. One affair is hard enough to deal with let alone 3 and possibly others. Hopefully you have some good friends to lean on during these hard times. I wish I could give you more advice on dealing with the betrayal aspect, but fortunately have never had to deal with that personally. DS is a good place to come and vent and not worry about what your friends and family are thinking. Take care of yourself by making sure you are eating. I find solace in walks and working outside, I hope you can find a place that helps you heal.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Sorting it out	pinkhibiscus	08/19/07 09:34 AM
Re: Sorting it out	matilda	08/19/07 10:40 AM
Re: Sorting it out	pinkhibiscus	08/19/07 12:20 PM
Re: Sorting it out	matilda	08/19/07 02:37 PM
Re: Sorting it out	AtWitsEnd	08/20/07 08:45 AM
Re: Sorting it out	pinkhibiscus	08/21/07 06:25 AM
Re: Sorting it out	AtWitsEnd	08/21/07 07:06 AM
Re: Sorting it out	pinkhibiscus	08/21/07 10:44 AM
Re: Sorting it out	Relayer	08/21/07 04:02 PM

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