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Lotsoflight
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Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m
      09/15/07 03:07 PM

I'm at a loss. My just turned 14 yr old does not want to see her father. We seperated a few months ago (he left) and the divorce is not quite final yet. She's angry that he left, his apartment is small and not "home", she's bored over there, there's no bed or bedroom for her or her brother, etc. She doesn't want to go to see him EOW. I've been encouraging that things will get better, it'll be ok, try to point out the good things, etc but she's not buying any of it.

I continue to make her go but she's just pulling away from both of us. I'm not sure what to do. She told him she doesn't want to go and he says he think she should have to.

I'm just not sure how to improve the situation.

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* Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m Lotsoflight 09/15/07 03:07 PM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m Lotsoflight   12/07/07 01:51 PM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m yregna   09/20/07 06:20 PM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m Lotsoflight   12/07/07 01:49 PM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m freedom123   09/25/07 05:35 AM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m freedom123   09/25/07 05:42 AM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m 1004SRS   09/21/07 05:16 AM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m Debi   09/16/07 05:12 PM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m JustMeAndThree   09/17/07 07:02 AM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father ... m ssmom79   09/18/07 08:55 AM
. * * Re: Older child doesn't want to see her father Renee   09/15/07 05:30 PM

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