Quote: You, Relayer, and googledad really need to get a life for it seems that you spend a great deal of your time on here insulting people and pretending you know the laws. All 3 of you need to grow up.
<<<< Let me tell you something, Boogieburke. If it weren't for myslef finding this forum, I would be at my end right now. I am still close to my end, but not as bad as I was when I stumbled here. Because of the advice that I've read and gotten directly from the people you are insulting, I have a way bigger understanding of what is going on. Is it always pleasant?? Nope. I don't want it it be. If I were looking for someone to tell me that it was going to be okay, I would phone my mother. People post on this board for advice. I would way rather listen to what people had to say and take it into consideration, than to walk blindly into a court room, only to have my delusions dashed at the flippin' door. Because of these people you're mad at, I have a better understanding of what I'm going up against and that is a good thing. If you don't agree with what they tell you because it isn't all pretty words and glitter and everything you want to hear, why did you post in the first place?? Are you prepared to not listen to what experienced people have said, only to see it happen in court?? If you don't even want to acknowledge what these people say as being a possibility, be ready to crumble emotionally in court if you don't get your way. I know that, because of this forum, the 'battle' with children is long, hard, and far from pretty. I have also learnt from reading past posts, that I will be able to cope no matter what happens next week in my life. I also know that I will be back at this board for my daily dose of reality and to dish out my fair share. It's easy for people in real life to side with those close to them. In reality, most of them don't understand... you don't even understand the court system, or you wouldn't be here. I don't understand it either but because of the help of these people, I'm not AS afraid as I was.
What you said was out of line.