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You, Relayer, and googledad really need to get a life for it seems that you spend a great deal of your time on here insulting people and pretending you know the laws. All 3 of you need to grow up.

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We aren't pretending Boogie. While laws vary somewhat from state to state, they are all pretty much the same when it comes to custody. It's whatever is in the best interest of the child as determined by the court. And as most people on this board (not just us three) have years or decades of experience in the courts, you might want to listen to what everyone is telling you. Jeez, even some people I consider "unreasonable" in terms of the kids have told you that your scheme is not going to fly. That in itself is something.

The only one here who is pretending is you. Pretending you know what the realities of the situation are. It's quite a nice little fantasy (and/or hallucination).

As I said before, even if your move request is granted, the entire raise and then some would be eaten up in travel cost and other associated expenses related to ensuring the bond between father and child. Are you prepared to fly them 4-5 times a year to see their father (if not more?). Are you prepared for them to be away for 2-3 months at a time? Are you prepared for $100 a month long distance charges? Are you prepared for lost CS because the visitation will be so much greater? (thats another thing..your CS could change for the worse, depending on what state you move to..I mean FAR worse..better check that..what state are you moving to?).

$20K is not much money, and your dreams of paradise are going to be funneled to the airline, phone company and right back into your ex's pocket.

But none of that matters because odd's are if you go before a judge with this cock-a-manie scheme, you are going to lose your kids, especially if they have extended family in West Virginia.

Listen, if they DO have extended family in WV, you can forget, 100% percent, without fail, you wont be going anywhere if you want to keep your kids.

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GO CUBBIES!!!!

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