boogieburke
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Re: One other thing.....
09/28/07 11:23 PM
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First of all one of my 4 children is unborn as of now, and my youngest is 3 and a three year old can't make that decision. Second, if a court denies my request and my husband does not support me in my decision on remaining here to be with my children and can't suck it up and move back and continue on, then he didn't value our marriage to begin with and would come across to be more selfish than what most of you already believe. I have no problems jumping back into a career to support my kids. Me being a SAHM was a joint decison between me and my husband. But if circumstances were to change, then I would do whatever I had to do to remain with my children. Even though most of you disagree with me wanting to relocate with my children, they are the most important things to me. Money is only part of it. I wouldn't choose money over my kids and have already said, if they can't move, I don't move period. How this topic got turned into a huge battle is beyond me. I'm not a young, helpless girl. I've traveled the world and have many life experiences and know how to be independent. But there are some life altering changes coming my way no matter what and I have to make the best decision for myself and family. Its to bad that people can't step into my shoes for just a minute and actually realize how hard all of this actually is. I'm in the middle, on the right is 2 daughters and an ex, and on the left is 2 sons and a husband. Which way do you go? I love my husband and all of my children and have zero respect for my ex, due to personal reasons obviously, so this sucks. But I'm sure it won't be the last hard decison that I have to make in my life. Whatever happens in the end, happens and I'll make the best of it no matter what.
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