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First of all one of my 4 children is unborn as of now, and my youngest is 3 and a three year old can't make that decision. Second, if a court denies my request and my husband does not support me in my decision on remaining here to be with my children and can't suck it up and move back and continue on, then he didn't value our marriage to begin with and would come across to be more selfish than what most of you already believe.

My response:

In my opinion, you need to choose your kids over your extremely selfish husband. I would file for divorce, custody, child support, and spousal support. And ask that he has to come to you for visits when your baby is born. Long-distance parenting simply isn't good for infants. Maybe if your husband gets a dose of the reality of being a long-distance parent, he may not be so willing to move a father's children so far away from him.

You said:


I have no problems jumping back into a career to support my kids. Me being a SAHM was a joint decison between me and my husband. But if circumstances were to change, then I would do whatever I had to do to remain with my children. Even though most of you disagree with me wanting to relocate with my children, they are the most important things to me. Money is only part of it. I wouldn't choose money over my kids and have already said,

My response:

But you are choosing their selfish stepfather over them. And that's just as bad. Let your husband become the long-distance parent if that is what he wants.

You said:

I love my husband and all of my children and have zero respect for my ex, due to personal reasons obviously, so this sucks.

My response:

Your ex-husband moved to where his children were so that he wouldn't be a long-distance parent.

Your husband moved away. And wants to take your ex's children with him. Your husband didn't choose his family over money. He chose money over family.

And that is something that deserves no respect.

At least your ex chose his kids over whatever job he had before he moved to be closer to his children.

And that is something that deserves respect.

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