
cjhcarroll
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Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's
10/18/07 10:54 AM
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Thanks for your advice, I now feel as if I am forcing my son's to deal with their father because they have no desire to be with him. Kinda like out of sight out of mind. I have since spoken to the ex and told I think it would be best if he comes to see the kids alone, without his children until our kids are comfortable with him. His response was "I dont see why I shouldnt bring my kids because they have never met their older brothers, they need to meet their older brothers" so in my opinion his agenda is not about re-building a relationship withour sons it is about his children meeting their older brothers. My sons have no interest in their father..I feel as if I am forcing them to get ont he phone when he calls, for them it is out of sight out of mind. Yes he is their father, but the ball is not in his court when it come to our sons. His children have had him all their lives since birth, mine did'nt. And now he want in. I have no problem with that. But when my sons say NO! maybe I should leave it that way.
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