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Misslisa1017
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Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's

10/19/07 04:09 PM

I totally understand where you are coming from. But like I said, you have to start out somewhere, and better with you allowing him into your turf for your boys comfort than to have him head to court and hold you in contempt.

If you have a court order that gives him every other weekend, he can LEGALLY hold you to it and bring you to court for not allowing him visits.

Better to just let him see them, but i'd do it at your home till they get comfortable. If the only way he's going to come is with the other kids, maybe that would break the ice better if the kids meet the other children?

I hope everything works out for you. Good luck.

My daughter when she was 14, her Dad decided it was time to come back into her life. She locked herself in the bathroom and wouldnt' come out. The man hurt her so badly through the years not being there. But with much persuasion, she did eventually unlock the door and hugged him. Things will never be what they should be with my kids and their dad, but at least they love one another. My kids still resent his choice for remaining absent.

It could be too that your hubby is just looking to introduce the kids, and then he'll disappear again for a long time. You just never know.

Good luck.

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He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	cjhcarroll	10/16/07 07:35 PM
Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	Misslisa1017	10/18/07 06:56 AM
Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	cjhcarroll	10/18/07 10:54 AM
Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	Misslisa1017	10/19/07 04:09 PM
Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	cjhcarroll	10/19/07 05:17 PM
Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	nrvouswrk	10/19/07 06:21 PM
Re: He's Back!! Help me and my 2 teenage son's	freedom123	11/08/07 11:52 PM

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