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kav
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Reged: 06/10/05
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Loc: NC

Re: Checking In

09/09/05 06:16 PM

Melanie

Glad to hear you're doing well!! Time does heal, doesn't it. Stories like yours give the rest of us hope. It's nice to know there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Karen,

So curious about one thing you said, that your X isn't the same person he was. I read that a lot here and it's so true!! But, it confuses me more than anything else in life. Why is it??? How is it that the person we married, whether for 2 years or 30, changes like they do?? I can't figure it out. They're still the same person they were for, what, 30, 40, 50 years. My stbx was always concerned about people, exes he dated or lived with, family, etc. Then he leaves and screws me anyway he possibly can. For example, for some stupid reason, over the years we purchased one car and then another, both under my name. No big deal, would I dream that a couple years down the line we wouldn't be married?? Not a chance!! Would I think he'd screw me? No way in hell. When we went our separate ways he said he'll take one car and make the payments, I took the other car and made the payments for it. Well he makes good money, I just bearly get by. The payments on both cars are fairly the same. Yet, I make my payments and the other car payments don't get made for months. Now I sit and think, where is that responsible person that would not intentionally screw anyone?? How do they change, why do they change? Like I said, it really confuses me.

Kim

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Checking In	mlh53	09/09/05 07:51 AM
Re: Checking In	NancyD	09/12/05 08:12 AM
Re: Checking In	Karen1	09/09/05 11:39 AM
Hi Karen	mlh53	09/11/05 08:18 AM
Re: Hi Karen	Karen1	09/11/05 01:44 PM
Re: Hi Karen	kav	09/11/05 09:19 AM
Re: Hi Karen	sandflea	09/11/05 11:40 AM
Re: Checking In	kav	09/09/05 06:16 PM
Re: Checking In	Karen1	09/11/05 01:33 PM
Re: Kim...excuse me Mel...	alabama	09/09/05 08:40 PM
Re: Kim...excuse me Mel...	kav	09/09/05 08:59 PM
Re: Kim...Sweet Angel?????	alabama	09/09/05 10:02 PM

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