tinman
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Reged: 12/07/07
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Loc: colorado, usa
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can't decide ( deal with it or tell her to go)
12/10/07 07:20 AM
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during this summer my wife of 13 years developed a relationship with man that was helped her with taking care of the house while i was working 50 to 60 hrs a week and coaching our sons baseball team. even on the weekends that i didnt have to work she told me that we needed to pay of more bills and i needed to work if i could. i have been fortunate enough to be able to keep her at home with our 2 children the whole time by working my tale end off. i do construction work and in todays economy that is very hard to do. we have 2 beautiful children, boy 14 and girl 11. i have begged and pleaded for us to get help because i love her very much but it does not seam that she wants to. i told her that i cannot give her the house, i can not let another man come in to the house that i have worked for and built up with my own hands for my familly. currently the man she has fell in love with is stuck in mexico (come to find out that he was an illeagal alien). it pains me every time that he contacts her. it makes me feel like a wrench is twisting my heart around. my wife is diabetic and i have concernes for well being. on top of all this her grand father passed away last week. some where in the past i forgot how to show here i love her the right way. i got myself into the pattern of giving her what she wants and working myself to death to do it. i am no angel and have my own faults i have lied to her about smoking and looking at [censored] but i was home every night, dont drink anymore so i dont go to bars or clubs, havent smoked pot for about eight years know and dont miss either of those two. part of me wants to let her stay because then i have her around and i am not letting go part of me says to let her leave. dont know what to do.
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