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Re: Need some advice - Im so lost
12/17/07 04:20 PM
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1 - The men that she has had these relationships with have been clients through her work. They have flirted with her and she eventually gives in and flirts back. Is that cheating.
YES. Why should it matter who started? Unless this is the only way your wife can keep her job (and then I would ask 'is this a real job?'), I would say that this kind of totally unprofessional behaviour and not knowing healthy boundaries might even cost her her job one day. You don't air your marriage issues to clients and exchange hot messages with them. That is unless you work for some sex hotline.
2 - There is to date no physical contact or any proof that there is intention to be physical. I know about emotional affairs but are they really as bad as physical?
Emotional affairs are MUCH WORSE than physical affairs, because it shows that there is something crucial missing in your marriage and that your wife is emotionally detached from you, otherwise she would not be able to attach to someone else or look for someone else to attach to. But basically your wife sounds so immature that I do not even believe that these were really emotional affairs. You don't have multiple emotional affairs with every other client who thinks your buns are cute.
3 - Further defining her relationship. There is flirting, hiding any form of communication with them from me, much of the communication is done at work, it is very possible that there may have been phone sex but not truly confirmed, she definitely has talked about our marriage to these men and used them as a sounding board, finally, I do know that although it appears to be over with all parties there was a bit of her that cared somewhat for these guys and missed the daily flirts etc.
Obviously you are with a needy, immature and not very sincere person with big self esteem issues. Sounds like perfect bliss. I know you love her, but BOY, would I make sure that she gets into serious counseling ASAP.
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