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Tabitha
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Re: Um, excuse me but,

09/27/05 11:46 AM

I didn't "start anything" on the Men's Rights Board. Brian asked for opinions and I gave him mine. Gr8dad didn't agree and we had a debate over our difference of opinion. Blah came along and started trolling with his message of hate and exclusion. I unwittingly replied to him a few times before I realized he was a troll formerly known as Rah who was subsequently banned from that board - and had to come back as a different identity.

Up until Rah/Blah started his campaign, women and men used to post ideas back and forth freely on both the Men's and Women's boards and I enjoyed hearing everyone's opinions, even the ones I disagreed with. I was under the impession that these boards were open to everyone. I guess some small minds can't handle a difference of opinion.

For the record, I never once used the phrases you are accusing me of in quotes... "not educated enough" or "too simplistic." I never once told brian to up and quit his job, stop calling or that it was all his fault. I merely tried to get him to open his eyes to what might be her perspective so that he could understand his enemy in order to make better decisions instead of continuing to run in circles. My advice for him was to 1) Try to figure out why she was so angry and resentful because that could be the key to the whole problem. 2) Do whatever he had to do to wrap up things with his business and find a job and move back to Conneticut so he could be there to parent his son since his ex wife obviously wasn't going to facilitate that relationship. 3) Realize that holding her in contempt of court probably wouldn't change her behavior and could possibly exacerbate the problem.

So, please, I would appreciate it if you wouldn't put words in my mouth. Thank you.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Need advice Im so lost	Jewelsy	09/21/05 04:57 PM
Jewelsy...	almostheaven	09/26/05 01:59 PM
Re: Need advice Im so lost	almostheaven	09/21/05 06:56 PM
Typical	Blah	09/23/05 08:38 AM
Re: Typical	Jewelsy	09/23/05 10:32 AM
Re: Typical	Blah	09/23/05 10:47 AM
Re: Typical	Rebecca5	09/23/05 09:06 PM
Re: Need Advice	overtherainbow	09/25/05 12:24 AM
Re: Need Advice	Rebecca5	09/25/05 02:42 PM
Re: Need Advice	Jewelsy	09/25/05 07:54 PM
Re: Typical	almostheaven	09/23/05 11:29 AM
Congratulations, you've grasped it!	Blah	09/26/05 08:02 AM
So then, you're just like the girls...	almostheaven	09/26/05 01:56 PM
Re: So then, you're just like the girls...	Miranda	09/26/05 04:30 PM
Re: So then, you're just like the girls...	almostheaven	09/26/05 07:23 PM
I don't think she was trolling.	Dee78	09/27/05 06:22 AM
Re: I don't think she was trolling.	almostheaven	09/27/05 09:05 AM
Re: I don't think she was trolling.	Blah	09/27/05 01:07 PM
Well sort of...	Miranda	09/27/05 08:19 AM
Re: Um, excuse me but,	Tabitha	09/27/05 11:46 AM
Re: Um, excuse your Butt?	Blah	09/27/05 12:51 PM
Re: U R the troll.	Tabitha	09/27/05 01:11 PM
Tabitha	TGSM	09/27/05 01:48 PM
Re: TGSM	Tabitha	09/27/05 01:50 PM
You're welcome, but...	TGSM	09/27/05 02:12 PM
Re: Consider it learned....	Tabitha	09/27/05 02:28 PM
Typical	Blah	09/28/05 08:22 AM
Re: Typical	Jewelsy	09/28/05 09:01 AM
Re: Typical	bloozydude	01/02/08 04:43 PM
Why would you do that???	Miranda	09/28/05 10:09 AM
Re: Why would you do that???	almostheaven	09/28/05 11:04 AM
Re: Why would you do that???	Blah	09/28/05 02:46 PM
If you do that...	almostheaven	09/28/05 09:28 AM
Re: U R hopelessly self centered.!	Blah	09/27/05 01:15 PM
Gee, Blah, couldn't keep your promise.	AnneB	09/27/05 01:07 PM
Oh I agree	Dee78	09/27/05 08:35 AM
Re: Oh I agree	Jewelsy	09/27/05 09:03 AM
LOL...	almostheaven	09/27/05 09:07 AM
Good Advice to a man?	Blah	09/27/05 09:35 AM
Okay already...	Miranda	09/27/05 09:48 AM
I knew there had to be at least one!	Blah	09/27/05 10:29 AM
Re: I don't think she was trolling.	Blah	09/27/05 08:01 AM

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