Lazerus
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Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ
01/25/08 08:36 PM
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I CAN'T BELIEVE SHE VIOLATED HER TRO!!!!
She called me three times today...of course I didn't take the call! I checked the cell records just to be sure it was her and not a mistake...THREE TIMES.
Well, I hate to put the mother of my children in county lock up for the weekend, but she knew she should not have called me. It's gut wretching to think of my wife in that place, but if the shoe was on the other foot, she wouldn't think twice about me getting hauled off.
This is painful, she doesn't deserve to be going to lock-up for a phone call, but it's not my fault she is sick, abusive and needs help...whatever she called me for was either to beg for me to stop this (Manipulation) or to berate me for this (Abuse)...so I am not taking it anymore.
So for all you people that think the love of your life doesn't deserve to face the consequences of their actions, get over it...it hurts, it sucks, it is the worst place to be but if it get's the point across and hardens your case do it.
I hate to see her put through the system, and I actually hope that it was one of her so called friends trying to fk her day up...but I cannot take any chances nor can I care...I am fighting for the safety of my children and to make sure she gets put into psych eval...she needs meds and I no longer want to be abused, my son abused and have my youngest growing up thinking it's okay to be abused.
For any man reading this, if you see anything I wrote similar in your marriage, do something about it. You are not alone and you are not weak for putting your abusive woman in her place. Ask yourself what it will teach your children...it took me 15 years to learn about this, it took almost 2 years for me to finally get fed up with her hitting both me and my boy...it will take me 20 years to undo the damage that this will cause my children...and the world can hate me for it...my kids will not grow up with this and she now has no choice about getting help.
Yes it sucks to put someone you once loved to the ends of the earth in a crappy place like jail, but you and your child's safety are most important...remember that if you do not protect your child you are not acting in the best interest of your child...I need to get over her dillema, she created it. I will.
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