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Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ
      01/28/08 07:40 PM

Well, she has not violated the TRO again...that little play that I called her on has only heightened her anger. This woman is clearly not playing with a full deck.
Once again it is all about her...what was done to her, what she didn't do, what about her....no fkn regard for the kids in this...no she did not run around for a week trying to find a sensible attorney that would put her @$$ in a counciling chair and make her look like an angel....nooooooo! This woman finally hires the nastiest attorney in this county and probably the state. This guys rep is vile....supposedly or is it allegedly...who knows...he accused a father of sexual misconduct with the child which muddied the divorce for over a month....the truth is revealed but the damage is done.
How could this woman call herself a good mother? Oh Wait....she asked me on many occassions if she was a good mother...I should have told her the truth...Man am I stoooopid.
So this attorney is also notorious for not giving a crap about dragging the kids into the mix. Is this true...not sure, but what is 100% accurate about this attorney is that he immediately claims the DV is false...doesn't matter if there is a kid who writes a letter to God asking mommy to stop hitting him and taking out her anger on him...noooooo.

Just on principal this guy shouldn't be allowed to practice...but she finds him and she does it out of vengence, no regard for her kids. I wonder if any of this is the new boyfriend egging her on...fkng moron...I'm a man and I know the games we play to get what we want when we want it bad enough....this guy just needs to step aside and leave well enough alone.

Why is it so hard for her to understand that all I want is for her to be in some type of therapy so that she no longer directs her anger at my son? Maybe if I was dealing with a rational person I would have that answer. But no...this woman hires a would-be, alleged snake in the grass with no moral complex...how true this is, I will find out in 24 hours.

I stick to the plan...the truth. I stick to the truth....I am transparent, there is nothing I have done that I cannot answer to in life. I am not the one that has so much to lose.
Is that it, is it because due to all this she can lose her kids, her job (predicated on public behavior), her home...is it because her credibility is going to go down the toilet....?
Let me ask you all a question, do these so called experts really know what they are doing? Will someone interview my son and see that there is a problem but he is reluctant to speak against his mother?

I felt good today, until I found out who it was she hired, now I feel like I've just created a whirlwind of $h!t for my sons and all I wanted was for her to finally be forced into getting some help, protect my kids and have some peace for once time in 15 years.

What have I unleashed on my life and my kids....why is it so hard for a human being to realize that they have a problem and why try so hard to hide it at the cost of your children's mental and physical well being?

I do not want to hate this woman, but this course of action will certainly drive me to despise her more than any other human being that has done me or my children wrong.

I need to stop asking why because answers only come from rational people...I need to start asking what is the next step in protecting my children.

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* Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus 01/18/08 03:51 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ googledad   01/21/08 07:51 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/24/08 08:01 AM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ matart1   01/24/08 10:41 AM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/25/08 08:36 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ matart1   01/28/08 03:17 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/28/08 04:27 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/28/08 07:40 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Maury   01/28/08 11:29 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/29/08 08:16 AM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/29/08 09:54 AM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/29/08 12:16 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Buckeye   01/29/08 10:15 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/29/08 11:06 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Buckeye   01/30/08 07:10 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   02/07/08 11:23 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   02/08/08 05:08 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ lilgypsy   01/26/08 02:39 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/26/08 03:50 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/27/08 12:27 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/27/08 01:05 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/24/08 01:36 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/25/08 04:52 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ matart1   01/21/08 09:59 AM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/21/08 01:52 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ lilgypsy   01/21/08 05:03 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/21/08 05:30 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Relayer   01/18/08 10:14 PM
. * * Re: Dazed and Confused in NJ Lazerus   01/18/08 10:21 PM

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