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Re: Spouse transferred money out of joint account
      02/06/08 11:15 PM

Why wipe out the funds... What makes a person do that? /quote

Cowardice. The leaver, male or female, is almost always the one who's having an affair. He/she doesn't have the guts to say, "Honey, we could make some changes in our marriage, I'm not happy." So the faithful spouse spends months or years worrying about what's wrong with the person they love, and the cheater never starts the conversation they both need.

Then the cheater isn't brave enough to say, "I've found someone new." And the faithful spouse is exposed to disease, again sometimes for months or years. But usually the cheater isn't brave enough to choose either the marriage or the affair.

Then the cheater is so spineless that he/she walks out the door without even saying, "Here's what I need for the next few months, and this amount is what I think you (and our kids) need." The coward will do anything rather than have those unhappy discussions.

It's not always the man, by any means, who cancels the joint credit cards and empties the joint checking account and stops paying the bills. But I bet it's really really rare that the faithful spouse takes more than he/she needs from a joint account. I bet the one who was left usually takes only enough for immediate expenses.

Then soon afterward, the faithful spouse learns what a coward the stbx really is.

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* Spouse transferred money out of joint account asfasf 02/02/08 02:57 PM
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. * * Re: Spouse transferred money out of joint account DeeCee   02/06/08 11:34 PM
. * * Re: Spouse transferred money out of joint account BetsyR   02/07/08 12:44 AM
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