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LadyBugRN
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Re: Mediation.....what fun
      10/12/05 07:41 PM

You know, interestingly, I had almost the opposite thing happen. We celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary in March of 2001. My now ex-husband actually went really out of his way that year (first time ever) to do something really nice for me. I was shocked and appreciative. Then, maybe not even but 3 to 4 weeks later, he started to turn on me, for no reason. By May of 2001, we were separated. He just came home and announced he was moving out and was gone by that weekend. I was extremely confused and he wouldn't even explain or talk about it.

I look back now and realize that when he started to turn on me, this is when he met the OW. I now know he met her on a business trip, on an airline flight between where we live and NYC. He started traveling there a lot the last 2 months we were together. Of course, he swore I was nuts to think there was something going on. It was all my "imagination"... Yeah, uh huh, right! You don't go from being nice, romantic, giving gifts, flowers, etc., which is so not the usual norm, to 2 months later just moving out.

Lori

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* Mediation.....what fun kav 10/11/05 07:46 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun mlh53   10/13/05 07:02 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun kav   10/13/05 08:06 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun NancyD   10/12/05 11:45 AM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun kav   10/12/05 06:44 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun LadyBugRN   10/12/05 07:41 PM
. * * Re: they could be twins............ kav   10/12/05 08:08 PM
. * * Re: they could be twins............ LadyBugRN   10/12/05 09:24 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun LadyBugRN   10/11/05 09:05 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun kav   10/11/05 09:21 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun LadyBugRN   10/11/05 10:20 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun Lyn   10/11/05 09:37 PM
. * * Re: Mediation.....what fun kav   10/11/05 10:01 PM

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