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Patrice
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Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF

03/22/08 07:42 AM

Now that your timeline is out the window, you might as well give the kids some info. Their dad should explain that yes, you are a new friend that he likes a lot (or whatever) but that no, you did not cause the breakup of the marriage and that you only met in whatever month.

I also think he should tell them that he would appreciate it if they would treat you civilly because you are important to him.

If you're planning to move into "their old house" you may have to work against their resentment that you've taken their place and their mom's place. I know you may not see it that way but the teenagers are probably hurting over the breakup of their family also, and no matter how nice you are they may not accept you for some time.

Whether or not the 16 yr old was set up by the mother, your BF now has to try to deal with the kids' questions. I suggest he do this without you there. (Again, you're probably a perfectly nice person, but the kids may not be ready to get to know you yet.)

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Edited by Patrice (03/22/08 07:47 AM)

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	Banannie	03/19/08 03:44 PM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	matart1	03/19/08 05:00 PM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	Patrice	03/22/08 07:42 AM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	gettingby	03/30/08 05:27 PM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	Banannie	04/09/08 07:04 AM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	1004SRS	04/10/08 11:28 AM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	092895	04/10/08 11:49 AM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	Banannie	04/13/08 07:09 AM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	Linda45	04/23/08 11:05 PM
Re: SD "set up" to confront the Ex-H's new GF	Banannie	04/28/08 12:30 PM
Hope the Ex	092895	05/01/08 09:47 AM

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