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Re: Sure he did...
      04/22/08 11:31 PM

Not to mention

A distant relationship between kids and NCP is a TERRIBLE reason to oppose a new schedule for more time between them.

A history of failed visitation schedules is a TERRIBLE reason to oppose trying a different schedule, to the NCP's liking.

Potential loss of CS to you proportionate to parenting time is a TERRIBLE reason to oppose more parenting time for a NCP.

Not telling the board your backstory is a TERRIBLE reason to blame the board when judgement is passed without having much "insight."

And adding to your story when initial responses aren't supportive/sympathetic enough is a TERRIBLE way to come across as straightforward and honest. It essentially proves you are fishing for supportive responses, and might just be fabricating what it takes to generate such responses until you hear the answer you want.

Though, that all said, rude lashing outs are unnecessary. Take them as "bravado" inspired by behing behind the wall of anonymity message boards provide. In fact, embrace them for what they're worth because you can really get gut knee-jerk responses from the "id" psyches of some tortured souls and cut through a lot of social phoniness with very little effort here :)

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* motion to reconsider childsupport christine1 04/21/08 05:17 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 06:58 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 07:35 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 08:06 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 08:11 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport sally1234   04/23/08 07:27 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport motorboater   04/23/08 08:23 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 08:16 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 08:19 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/22/08 06:26 AM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport momtoall   04/28/08 03:23 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/22/08 06:40 AM
. * * Save the email.... almostheaven   04/25/08 07:26 AM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport accesskas   04/22/08 06:56 AM
. * * Sure he did... gr8Dad   04/22/08 11:42 AM
. * * Re: Sure he did... Relayer   04/22/08 11:45 AM
. * * Re: Sure he did... christine1   04/22/08 03:38 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... motorboater   04/22/08 11:31 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... christine1   04/23/08 05:50 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... ssmom79   04/23/08 07:33 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... motorboater   04/23/08 06:30 PM
. * * I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/25/08 07:30 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/25/08 11:40 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/25/08 12:44 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/25/08 04:03 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/25/08 03:29 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/26/08 07:40 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/26/08 02:17 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/27/08 08:58 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/27/08 01:01 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/27/08 04:27 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/27/08 08:20 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/29/08 07:35 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/29/08 09:42 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/29/08 11:30 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/29/08 03:52 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   05/02/08 08:11 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... christine1   04/29/08 05:35 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/29/08 06:06 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... christine1   04/29/08 06:33 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... Relayer   04/27/08 08:25 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... christine1   04/26/08 01:10 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/26/08 03:54 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... Relayer   04/26/08 06:09 PM
. * * Blah blah blah... almostheaven   04/27/08 08:59 AM
. * * Re: Blah blah blah... christine1   04/27/08 11:58 AM
. * * Re: Blah blah blah... motorboater   04/27/08 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Blah blah blah... almostheaven   04/27/08 04:16 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... Relayer   04/25/08 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... Rebecca5   04/22/08 11:10 PM
. * * OMG!... almostheaven   04/25/08 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Sure he did... motorboater   04/22/08 06:29 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Cassie23   04/21/08 09:39 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Relayer   04/21/08 08:10 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 07:36 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Relayer   04/21/08 08:05 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Buckeye   04/21/08 06:45 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Relayer   04/21/08 06:55 PM

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