Duckie
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Father using self rx Autism to not pay support
04/26/08 02:33 PM
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I have a state recognized disabled child who has Aspbergers a form of Austim, she has other issues as well. Her father who has been estranged for going on 10 years has decided that because my child has a form of Autism, that he has diagnosed himself as being Autistic and therefor shoud not have to support my daughter and if he does it shall not go over $50 because he has too large of an entertainment bill for himself.
He wasn't autistic enough to keep from getting an erection and creating my daughter or restraining himself from taking advantage of me.
However he has gone around the internet various places playing the professional victim role as that we have destroyed his life and bantering on with lies and stories that are so wild I don't think Jerry Springer could handle it.
Truth is that he has an emotional disturbance and is so violent and out of control that he is removed from job after job after job.
An extremely reasonable offer of $200 was presented to the father and he declined it stating that it is too much.
The presumed amount is 286 plus medical, I offered $200 without medical.
The only true bill he has is rent which is $450 with all utils included.
What is one to do? He has an army of people that were estranged from him for years and years, that are going in to "testify" that he should not pay child support because of his self diagnosed autism.
What about my child's rights? My child is disabled and needs assistance.
This man has already got away with not having to pay back dues of 10 years, yet he has launched an all out campaign to sue me for filing for support. This whole thing is ridiculous. He got a continuance till June and i'm not sure why.
Where is my child's rights in all this? Why do these people attack me on the forums and never once take my child's needs into consideration?
I'm the mother, I'm the one who has been taking care of my daughter all these years. He only wants visitation (and publically stated this) "because that way I won't have to pay child support".
I could really use some support and maybe ideas.
I just don't think it's ok to use a self diagnosis of Autism as an excuse to be a dead beat dad.. I really don't.
Edited by Duckie (04/26/08 02:35 PM)
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