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Re: I guess I'm missing something here...
      04/29/08 03:52 PM

I hope you do continue to respond, or PM, because I'm interested in where you're coming from or what I can do to improve my writing to effectively communicate. I've both altered my use of quotation marks and made a concerted effort to change tone to get better at this...thanks to feedback from you.

From you I a number of "smug" items, interspersed with pleas to not be treated smugly. Eg "Ummm, what part about he didn't WANT long weekends hasn't occured to you?" "Have fun in your little corner of the I-know-it-all world." Also derogatory criticisms such as "sleazy" or "assinine shyt." It's not so bad, it's just that you're asking for kid-glove treatment while not giving it. You are here opposing harshness and judgement calls, but that's what you're doing too.

Not to mention, justifying denying kids living with dad with some iffy reasoning. Dad doesn't sound like a picnic, admittedly. But for whatever reason, he's now saying he wants more time with the kids. Opposition justified in part because he left his wife, got a girlfriend, lives hours away, doesn't know school schedules, and doesn't phone often enough, and doesn't ask the right questions when he does phone. None of that hurts kids when with him in the summer!

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* motion to reconsider childsupport christine1 04/21/08 05:17 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 06:58 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 07:35 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 08:06 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 08:11 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport sally1234   04/23/08 07:27 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport motorboater   04/23/08 08:23 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 08:16 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 08:19 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Rebecca5   04/21/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/22/08 06:26 AM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport momtoall   04/28/08 03:23 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/22/08 06:40 AM
. * * Save the email.... almostheaven   04/25/08 07:26 AM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport accesskas   04/22/08 06:56 AM
. * * Sure he did... gr8Dad   04/22/08 11:42 AM
. * * Re: Sure he did... Relayer   04/22/08 11:45 AM
. * * Re: Sure he did... christine1   04/22/08 03:38 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... motorboater   04/22/08 11:31 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... christine1   04/23/08 05:50 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... ssmom79   04/23/08 07:33 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... motorboater   04/23/08 06:30 PM
. * * I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/25/08 07:30 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/25/08 11:40 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/25/08 12:44 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/25/08 04:03 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/25/08 03:29 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/26/08 07:40 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/26/08 02:17 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/27/08 08:58 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/27/08 01:01 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/27/08 04:27 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/27/08 08:20 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/29/08 07:35 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/29/08 09:42 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   04/29/08 11:30 AM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/29/08 03:52 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... almostheaven   05/02/08 08:11 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... christine1   04/29/08 05:35 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/29/08 06:06 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... christine1   04/29/08 06:33 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... Relayer   04/27/08 08:25 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... christine1   04/26/08 01:10 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... motorboater   04/26/08 03:54 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... Relayer   04/26/08 06:09 PM
. * * Blah blah blah... almostheaven   04/27/08 08:59 AM
. * * Re: Blah blah blah... christine1   04/27/08 11:58 AM
. * * Re: Blah blah blah... motorboater   04/27/08 09:49 PM
. * * Re: Blah blah blah... almostheaven   04/27/08 04:16 PM
. * * Re: I guess I'm missing something here... Relayer   04/25/08 12:42 PM
. * * Re: Sure he did... Rebecca5   04/22/08 11:10 PM
. * * OMG!... almostheaven   04/25/08 07:32 AM
. * * Re: Sure he did... motorboater   04/22/08 06:29 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Cassie23   04/21/08 09:39 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Relayer   04/21/08 08:10 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport christine1   04/21/08 07:36 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Relayer   04/21/08 08:05 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Buckeye   04/21/08 06:45 PM
. * * Re: motion to reconsider childsupport Relayer   04/21/08 06:55 PM

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