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gdave44
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Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid
      05/21/08 08:21 AM

First rule of forum etiquette, turn your caps lock off. Typing in all caps is interpreted as yelling and nobody here has given you cause to yell. We all understand your frustration and we all have gone through a good share of it ourselves.

I, personally, agree that he should not have the child in the bed with them for any reason. However, I feel it's improper even if the girlfriend wasn't there. But, realistically, was the child accustomed to sleeping with the two of you before the divorce? I'd assume that he and his GF were just as appropriately dressed and behaved as the two of you were in the same situation. Now, if the child being in bed is a new thing, then you definitely have cause for concern. The mere threat of revisiting custody may be enough for him to reconsider his behavior. Afterall, it's not too terribly difficult to get a sleepover clause added to where he cannot have a GF overnight during his parenting time. Remember though, what's good for the goose is good for the gander and that same clause would apply to you. That may not matter to you now, but it may in the future.

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* exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids jules1 05/20/08 11:12 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids Debi   05/21/08 09:18 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids Kiddo   06/04/08 07:20 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids rocketgirl   06/04/08 08:08 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid gdave44   05/21/08 08:21 AM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid Relayer   06/07/08 06:35 AM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid gdave44   06/08/08 10:10 AM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid Relayer   06/09/08 06:37 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid gdave44   06/09/08 07:49 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid Relayer   06/09/08 10:03 PM
. * * Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid Misslisa1017   06/16/08 07:03 AM

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