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whattodonow
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Re: No problem with that...

11/03/05 12:29 PM

Thank you all so much for you reply. You make a lot of sense. Thanks for those links to I will definitely be checking those out. Does 50/50 custody mean the kids will live with me one week then him one week or something like that?

I think we can be amicable for the most part but if we were to just see one attorney together how or who would figure out the exact child support money and alimony? Is that something we do between ourselves? What about day care that my kids will no doubt have to go to now, am I expected to pay that now. My kids have never been in daycare they are going to be devastated. We do not have any family close by (Florida is the closest) so I guess maybe thinking about moving to Florida is something to consider but then my husbands job is here. If we do the 50/50 do we have to stay here? I just can't imagine how all of this gets figured out.

I can only imagine how this can turn very ugly. I think we both agree that we want things as easy as possible if nothing else but the kids sake. Our kids are my life and as long as he doesn't jeopardize anything with that I'm willing to work anything else out. he knows that's my weak link So I am a little worried he will use that. About 3 years ago I really messed up and I'm terrified he will bring it all up. I know he doesn't want total custody though so I'm hoping that part of my life will be left alone. About 3 years ago I had a few surgeries and allowed myself to get addicted to prescription pain pills. I went on to get them illegally from pharmacies and was caught and arrested. I know you probably all think how can a loving mom do something like that. I have learned my lesson and never want to go there again. I've always been a good person and have never ever been in any other trouble at all. My husband I don't think has ever truly forgiven me for that. I just wanted it to be know in case you thought this could affect anything now.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
Looking for suggestions on what to expect	whattodonow	11/02/05 05:40 PM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	overtherainbow	11/03/05 02:20 PM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	whattodonow	11/03/05 02:41 PM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	almostheaven	11/03/05 10:50 AM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	Tabitha	11/03/05 10:26 AM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	hippie1981	11/02/05 07:21 PM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	whattodonow	11/02/05 08:12 PM
Re: Looking for suggestions on what to expect	Rebecca5	11/02/05 09:28 PM
All of the above AND.......	passem	11/02/05 10:14 PM
Re: All of the above AND.......	youngatheart	11/03/05 06:11 PM
No problem with that...	almostheaven	11/03/05 10:53 AM
Re: No problem with that...	youngatheart	11/03/05 06:12 PM
Re: No problem with that...	whattodonow	11/03/05 08:53 PM
Re: No problem with that...	Cinder2	11/04/05 07:02 PM
Re: No problem with that...	whattodonow	11/04/05 09:18 PM
Re: No problem with that...	overtherainbow	11/06/05 12:17 PM
Sounds like he already has one foot out the door.	Jill	11/08/05 10:38 PM
Re: Sounds like he already has one foot out the door.	Karen1	11/09/05 09:40 PM
Re: No problem with that...	overtherainbow	11/04/05 01:33 AM
Re: No problem with that...	overtherainbow	11/04/05 01:48 AM
Re: No problem with that...	Karen1	11/03/05 11:55 AM
Re: No problem with that...	whattodonow	11/03/05 12:29 PM

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