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Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids

06/04/08 08:08 PM

Let me ask you this question. Do you love your child MORE than you hate your STBX (soon to be ex)? If the answer is yes, then drop this foolish notion that you are going to control what goes on in your ex's life (including having a GF around your son). If the answer is no, then by all means, make your child's life miserable by putting him in the middle of a battle of wills,that will turn out NOT in your favor.

Is he a horrible, abusive father? Does he beat your son, is verbally abusive, do drugs or drink excessively around your child?

A child needs BOTH parents in their lives unless one parent is deemed (not by YOU, but by a court of law) dangerous to the child. They need to know that their parents will put their well being above all else and that their happiness is the most important thing that the parents want for their child. Don't let bitterness and hate turn you into someone your child will want to get away from.

Again.. do you love your child more than you hate your ex?

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Lisa

Diplomacy - the art of telling someone to go to hell, and them looking forward to the trip.

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids	jules1	05/20/08 11:12 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids	Debi	05/21/08 09:18 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids	Kiddo	06/04/08 07:20 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kids	rocketgirl	06/04/08 08:08 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	gdave44	05/21/08 08:21 AM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	Relayer	06/07/08 06:35 AM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	gdave44	06/08/08 10:10 AM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	Relayer	06/09/08 06:37 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	gdave44	06/09/08 07:49 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	Relayer	06/09/08 10:03 PM
Re: exhusband cohabitating with new gf and our kid	Misslisa1017	06/16/08 07:03 AM

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