
someday
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Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad
06/12/08 08:49 AM
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Thank you sadie46 for responding. It is good to know that there are people out there that can relate to my pain. My son is 16 right now and he/his dad want joint custody. Same deal- Dad has no rules and allows him to be a "man". He is my son's "friend". The sad part is my son is SOOOO hateful toward his sister and I. We have become the enemy. I can't give up though. STUPID courts will probably give him his way - despite the fact that he has been in contempt of the CO, he won't return my son, and he's already initiated transfering schools. I'm so tired of all this!!! I guess I do have a comment to your sis. It will only get worse. My son started this about age 14 ( his dad moved 15 min away 5 yrs ago - 2 years after I got married again. He was living across the US for 3+ years). His dad has been working on him for this long -waiting- until my son is LOW MAINTENANCE (can drive himself around). My son said I want to go to dad's when "I don't like it here." -which means No rules! I suggest only that your sister not give joint custody - u don't have to. AND be there for your sis because the worst is yet to come. MONEY, CONTROL, HATE -it all has a role in these two situations. Thxs again. Hope to hear more.
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