sadie46
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Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad
06/13/08 08:19 AM
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Someday this sounds exactly like what sis is going through. Her ex wants full, but to come to her house after school and when he needs a babysitter kind of deal. Says she needs to "share her wealth" for son a car and college. Sis got $350 a month in support based on his $70K+ salary. He is IRS for 25 years. She never modified it, even loaned ex $5K. Ex has moved 16 times in 10 years, BK twice, married the woman left sis for 3 times in 5 years, and now has this new illigitimate baby. Ex son has treated her horrible recently and they were tight tight all those years. Good grades well liked sports kid and things are not good now. She never modified and even loaned him $5K. She fell apart when he filed something under misconduct. Doing this just to win. She did say that son was cursing her and yelling at her a few months ago and she did slap him which is wrong, but not criminal. She knows it was not right and will never do again. Other than that nothing. Ex bailed right after born abouts. She waited 15 years to have him. Got married at 18, he was 31. Ex didn't like the fact that sis took to much time away from ex to be with baby, so he left her for another woman. He is a mommy's boy kinda man. I did call him a few months ago to ask what was going on and he started in on me. Saying that if sis doesn't do what she is told he will hurt her but not physically. He too acts like the child and him are buddy's now. Son is easy to take care of per se these days but cost alot more. Sis knows what it is all about, and knows her ex is using the son for money. The way it looks he wants a $700 swing his way..no support of $350 to her and her pay him $350. I did tell her that she must let go over some of the control she had...protective too much and let him learn from his mistakes. I also said to set some rules down so that the son just doesn't think he can do anything he wants..which is what he is doing now. Playing parents. Her ex has also told son all kinds of things that are adult things...law etc and then makes him tell sis what the law will do. I think it is terrible. She is so torn anymore. I'm sorry that things like this go on. Thank god my kids were grown...but ex still plays them like a fiddle against me. He is the most evil man I know. Wish you the best.
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