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Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad

06/15/08 12:38 PM

[quote]Thank you sadie46 for responding. It is good to know that there are people out there that can relate to my pain. My son is 16 right now and he/his dad want joint custody. Same deal- Dad has no rules and allows him to be a "man". He is my son's "friend". The sad part is my son is SOOOO hateful toward his sister and I. We have become the enemy. I can't give up though. STUPID courts will probably give him his way - despite the fact that he has been in contempt of the CO, he won't return my son, and he's already initiated transfering schools. I'm so tired of all this!!! I guess I do have a comment to your sis. It will only get worse. My son started this about age 14 ( his dad moved 15 min away 5 yrs ago - 2 years after I got married again. He was living across the US for 3+ years). His dad has been working on him for this long -waiting- until my son is LOW MAINTENANCE (can drive himself around). My son said I want to go to dad's when "I don't like it here." -which means No rules! I suggest only that your sister not give joint custody - u don't have to. AND be there for your sis because the worst is yet to come. MONEY, CONTROL, HATE -it all has a role in these two situations. Thxs again. Hope to hear more. [/quote]

If your son can drive, he is certainly old enough to decide who he lives with and since he is a minimum of 16, the judge will most likely go along with it.

You are only the "enemy" because you have turned yourself into one.

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GO CUBBIES!!!!

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	someday	06/12/08 04:46 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	sadie46	06/12/08 07:54 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	googledad	06/16/08 10:10 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	cycler63	06/18/08 04:34 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	someday	06/12/08 08:49 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	Relayer	06/15/08 12:38 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	someday	06/15/08 05:57 PM
BINGO!	almostheaven	06/19/08 12:48 PM
Re: BINGO!	googledad	06/19/08 10:52 PM
Re: BINGO!	Relayer	06/22/08 09:35 PM
Re: BINGO!	someday	06/24/08 10:28 AM
Re: BINGO!	Lanie4889	07/10/08 10:40 PM
Re: BINGO!	almostheaven	06/20/08 09:43 AM
Re: BINGO!	someday	06/20/08 11:41 PM
Re: BINGO!	rnmom34	06/21/08 09:43 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	googledad	06/16/08 10:12 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	sadie46	06/13/08 08:19 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	sunnyday	06/12/08 10:07 AM
My daughter is 9..	greeneyes	06/14/08 05:16 PM
Re: My daughter is 9..	almostheaven	06/19/08 12:56 PM
Re: My daughter is 9..	someday	06/15/08 06:20 PM

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