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Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted
      06/17/08 12:52 AM

Hi Maritime Guy. Thanks for your input. For the last two years, when ever we have talked about splitting up the biz, he has told me that he would never take paper back from me.....he did not trust me. He has always said that I would have to pay him a lump sum.

Even when I suggested trading my interest in the house for his interest in the biz, he still seems to not want to move forward with this - I am guessing because he does not want to put the house on the market right now....he wants to wait a couple more years for the real estate market to bounce back. If he were to agree to this sort of split....I could go my own way and could still make a living....but he would be forced to go out and get a real job to pay the mortgage and live in the house (since he does not want to put it on the market right now).

He wants it all his way.

I am worried that if we go to mediation or through divorce court that the "powers to be" will force me to liquidate the biz and sell off the inventory, assets and website name which will force me out of biz and prevent me from earning any income. At least I WANT to work and keep my biz going. He does not seem to want to work and he just wants everything handed to him.

I don't know how these types of splits work and am really afraid I will lose my ability to support myself.

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* Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted redhead58 06/14/08 08:28 PM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted ProudToBeDad   06/15/08 07:44 AM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted redhead58   06/15/08 12:49 PM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted MaritimeGuy   06/16/08 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted redhead58   06/17/08 12:52 AM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted MaritimeGuy   06/17/08 08:10 AM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted redhead58   06/17/08 09:03 PM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted MaritimeGuy   06/18/08 11:23 AM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted redhead58   06/29/08 10:46 AM
. * * Re: Hurt, Frustrated and Conflicted MaritimeGuy   06/30/08 08:04 AM

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