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almostheaven
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BINGO!

06/19/08 12:48 PM

>>>>>or your just a small person that attempts to hurt people just to make yourself feels strong<<<<<

;)

You'll note the one agreeing with him/it as well. Neither of them took the time to bother with real feelings or advice of any type...just a slam fest. It MUST make them feel good, somehow, in some small (I mean very small) way. I guess you have to be sadistic in order to understand sadistic behavior though.

A lot of kids want to go see "how the other half lives" when they get into the teen years. They're hoping rules will be more lax there, they're hoping to find something they think they're missing, they're hoping for a lot of things. And the parent that wasn't around all those other years suddenly wants to either play parent now, or manipulate the other parent. When its a combo of a teen wanting the lax parent and the parent wanting to manipulate the other parent, that's when you generally get into situations of PAS.

But you had 14 years with him. That isn't going to rub off entirely in 2. He's going to enjoy the freedom he might now be getting with dad. He's going to ditch mom...because he can, because he can get by with it. But he's going to turn 18, become an adult, eventually being to act like an adult, eventually realize who really was THERE for him all that time...and who stepped in as Johnny on the spot at the 11th hour. If you were a good mom, he'll come back to that. If dad was a bad dad, he'll remember that too. In the end, the good guys might finish last, but we DO finish. ;)

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Char Fox

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Subject	Posted by	Posted on
My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	someday	06/12/08 04:46 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	sadie46	06/12/08 07:54 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	googledad	06/16/08 10:10 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	cycler63	06/18/08 04:34 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	someday	06/12/08 08:49 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	Relayer	06/15/08 12:38 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	someday	06/15/08 05:57 PM
BINGO!	almostheaven	06/19/08 12:48 PM
Re: BINGO!	googledad	06/19/08 10:52 PM
Re: BINGO!	Relayer	06/22/08 09:35 PM
Re: BINGO!	someday	06/24/08 10:28 AM
Re: BINGO!	Lanie4889	07/10/08 10:40 PM
Re: BINGO!	almostheaven	06/20/08 09:43 AM
Re: BINGO!	someday	06/20/08 11:41 PM
Re: BINGO!	rnmom34	06/21/08 09:43 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	googledad	06/16/08 10:12 PM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	sadie46	06/13/08 08:19 AM
Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad	sunnyday	06/12/08 10:07 AM
My daughter is 9..	greeneyes	06/14/08 05:16 PM
Re: My daughter is 9..	almostheaven	06/19/08 12:56 PM
Re: My daughter is 9..	someday	06/15/08 06:20 PM

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