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Re: BINGO!
      06/22/08 09:35 PM

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One of the things that bothers me most is hypocrisy . I have a major problem with people that insist on sole ( or primary ) custody and CS and then find a million reasons when circumstances change that they shouldn't be required to pay because the other parent is " only in it for the money " . It's even more outlandish when they suddenly " see the light " and offer 50/50 and no CS when there's a chance they'll pay when they've always had that option .

--> Kind of funny how that happens


BTW , my ex consistantly tell our 8 year old daughter( but not our 11 year old son ) how much she wants to live with her . Unfortunately her statements mean little when she'll cancel scheduled visitation because she " needs to go find a new boyfriend this weekend" . [/quote]

--> Bottom line is this young man is 16 and at that age, a close male influence is extremely important to his future development as a man. Of course, many women on this board think all men are evil (such as AH). He's 16, he's driving around, he old enough to have a job and by that age, no one is going to all of a sudden turn anyone else into an "enemy". That is the perception of the 16 year old. And at that age, if he hasn't learned to form his own opinions, a change is even more warranted. He has 2 years left before he can be on his own anyway. Her fighting this is simply going to make it worse when he IS an adult..it's not like this kid is 12 or something. Of course, Dad has to be turned into the "bad guy"

As yes, CS is warranted in ANY case where there is a CP and NCP, regardless. SAHM or not, the other one will need to get a job. Thats what a judge will say to a man and women are no different (supposedly).

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* My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad someday 06/12/08 04:46 AM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad sadie46   06/12/08 07:54 AM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad googledad   06/16/08 10:10 PM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad cycler63   06/18/08 04:34 PM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad someday   06/12/08 08:49 AM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad Relayer   06/15/08 12:38 PM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad someday   06/15/08 05:57 PM
. * * BINGO! almostheaven   06/19/08 12:48 PM
. * * Re: BINGO! googledad   06/19/08 10:52 PM
. * * Re: BINGO! Relayer   06/22/08 09:35 PM
. * * Re: BINGO! someday   06/24/08 10:28 AM
. * * Re: BINGO! Lanie4889   07/10/08 10:40 PM
. * * Re: BINGO! almostheaven   06/20/08 09:43 AM
. * * Re: BINGO! someday   06/20/08 11:41 PM
. * * Re: BINGO! rnmom34   06/21/08 09:43 AM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad googledad   06/16/08 10:12 PM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad sadie46   06/13/08 08:19 AM
. * * Re: My teenager is leaving me to be with his dad sunnyday   06/12/08 10:07 AM
. * * My daughter is 9.. greeneyes   06/14/08 05:16 PM
. * * Re: My daughter is 9.. almostheaven   06/19/08 12:56 PM
. * * Re: My daughter is 9.. someday   06/15/08 06:20 PM

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