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Re: A spin off of JL's post...
      06/25/08 03:18 PM

<<Now I know JL said she thinks he is like $600 behind with childcare costs for child #1 and doesn't actually pay CS. According to that letter sent by her ex's friend he pays $200 plus a month for her XDSD...>>

That's b/c that's close to what he SHOULD be paying for half of her daycare costs.

Honestly? I'm not sure it would make a difference. CSE attorney knows that he is also behind on supporting his daughter, she knows the situation and still told me jailtime is a very real possibility.

I'm sure we could go back and forth for days on this issue, but the fact of the matter is what we think *would* happen doesn't matter, the laws are so different in every state and even county, KWIM?

Regarding whether or not I THINK someone should go to jail when they have another child to support (but not supporting that child either)? I suppose I have a different outlook on the issue b/c this is my situation. If I didn't have such a good relationship with his daughter's mother, and if I didn't know what I know about the lack of responsibility and relationship he also has with his daughter, I may have felt differently.

I can't say whether or not it's right or wrong - I don't think there's one blanket answer for all situations.

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* A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23 06/25/08 03:15 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Runswithscissors   06/25/08 09:15 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... matilda   06/25/08 09:18 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Runswithscissors   06/25/08 09:24 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... matilda   06/25/08 09:28 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Runswithscissors   06/25/08 09:32 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... KrazyKat   06/25/08 07:34 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Arden   06/25/08 08:00 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Arden   06/25/08 08:20 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Redlegg   06/25/08 09:00 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... KrazyKat   06/25/08 09:10 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 09:18 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... spinnerdegrassi   06/25/08 09:16 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... 1966Gal   06/25/08 03:41 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... MaritimeGuy   06/25/08 03:27 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... youngatheart   06/25/08 03:25 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... JennyLynn   06/25/08 03:18 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23   06/25/08 03:29 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... preemiemom   06/25/08 03:39 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... JennyLynn   06/25/08 03:31 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... matart1   06/25/08 03:17 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23   06/25/08 03:16 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 03:26 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 03:50 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Sadie   06/25/08 03:54 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 04:01 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Sadie   06/25/08 04:03 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 04:05 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... M5M5   06/25/08 04:57 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 05:12 PM
. * * Why the HELL is Dad... gr8Dad   06/25/08 05:31 PM
. * * Re: Why the HELL is Dad... greeneyes   06/25/08 05:47 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... M5M5   06/25/08 05:25 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 05:50 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Miranda   06/25/08 06:02 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 06:01 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... katiefedup   06/25/08 06:07 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 06:11 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 06:11 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... M5M5   06/25/08 06:13 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 06:13 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Miranda   06/25/08 06:09 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 06:04 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... M5M5   06/25/08 05:57 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 06:01 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... M5M5   06/25/08 06:04 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 06:08 PM
. * * No empathy for Dad? SHOCKER... gr8Dad   06/25/08 04:39 PM
. * * Re: No empathy for Dad? SHOCKER... greeneyes   06/25/08 05:20 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 04:32 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... 1966Gal   06/25/08 04:38 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... matart1   06/25/08 04:28 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Redlegg   06/25/08 04:39 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... RJ1   06/25/08 04:48 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 04:46 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... PrincessJ   06/25/08 04:20 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 04:27 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23   06/25/08 04:20 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 04:00 PM
. * * Hmmm... greeneyes   06/25/08 04:03 PM
. * * Re: Hmmm... cincsu   06/25/08 04:37 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... MaritimeGuy   06/25/08 03:31 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 03:37 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... PrincessJ   06/25/08 03:40 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23   06/25/08 03:40 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 03:45 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23   06/25/08 03:35 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... Cassie23   06/25/08 03:31 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... PrincessJ   06/25/08 03:29 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 03:33 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... greeneyes   06/25/08 03:53 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... PrincessJ   06/25/08 03:39 PM
. * * Re: A spin off of JL's post... cincsu   06/25/08 03:41 PM

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