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cincsu
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Re: A spin off of JL's post...

06/25/08 06:01 PM

and from whos point of view does dad have to have this money? from our point of view we can always invest extra for our retirement if there is any or for weddings, houses for the kids, etc. there is always something. even bill gates has responsibilities.

from mom's point of view DH will always be Mr. moneybags because we budget our money and save it....she doesn't save anything and is a huge spender....so, from her point of view she will continue to spend her way through the next 12 years while DH and i work to save money.

so, no, he should pay for 1/2 and no more...even if he can afford it it won't hurt a child to take responsibility for themself.

i worked through college to pay things other than rent and tuition...like phone, food, computer, fun, extras....and when i graduated i bought my mother a brand spanking new honda accord EX to pay back my parents for what they had done for me. i was earning a decent salary and could afford to do it.

so, really what you are saying is give kids a sense of entitlement, and i don't agree with that in the least.

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wife of 1, mother of 2, stepmother of .3475902453

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A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 03:15 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Runswithscissors	06/25/08 09:15 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	matilda	06/25/08 09:18 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Runswithscissors	06/25/08 09:24 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	matilda	06/25/08 09:28 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Runswithscissors	06/25/08 09:32 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	KrazyKat	06/25/08 07:34 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Arden	06/25/08 08:00 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Arden	06/25/08 08:20 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Redlegg	06/25/08 09:00 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	KrazyKat	06/25/08 09:10 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 09:18 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	spinnerdegrassi	06/25/08 09:16 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	1966Gal	06/25/08 03:41 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	MaritimeGuy	06/25/08 03:27 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	youngatheart	06/25/08 03:25 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	JennyLynn	06/25/08 03:18 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 03:29 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	preemiemom	06/25/08 03:39 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	JennyLynn	06/25/08 03:31 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	matart1	06/25/08 03:17 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 03:16 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 03:26 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 03:50 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Sadie	06/25/08 03:54 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 04:01 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Sadie	06/25/08 04:03 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 04:05 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	M5M5	06/25/08 04:57 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 05:12 PM
Why the HELL is Dad...	gr8Dad	06/25/08 05:31 PM
Re: Why the HELL is Dad...	greeneyes	06/25/08 05:47 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	M5M5	06/25/08 05:25 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 05:50 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Miranda	06/25/08 06:02 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 06:01 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	katiefedup	06/25/08 06:07 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 06:11 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 06:11 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	M5M5	06/25/08 06:13 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 06:13 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Miranda	06/25/08 06:09 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 06:04 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	M5M5	06/25/08 05:57 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 06:01 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	M5M5	06/25/08 06:04 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 06:08 PM
No empathy for Dad? SHOCKER...	gr8Dad	06/25/08 04:39 PM
Re: No empathy for Dad? SHOCKER...	greeneyes	06/25/08 05:20 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 04:32 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	1966Gal	06/25/08 04:38 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	matart1	06/25/08 04:28 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Redlegg	06/25/08 04:39 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	RJ1	06/25/08 04:48 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 04:46 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	PrincessJ	06/25/08 04:20 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 04:27 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 04:20 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 04:00 PM
Hmmm...	greeneyes	06/25/08 04:03 PM
Re: Hmmm...	cincsu	06/25/08 04:37 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	MaritimeGuy	06/25/08 03:31 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 03:37 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	PrincessJ	06/25/08 03:40 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 03:40 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 03:45 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 03:35 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	Cassie23	06/25/08 03:31 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	PrincessJ	06/25/08 03:29 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 03:33 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	greeneyes	06/25/08 03:53 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	PrincessJ	06/25/08 03:39 PM
Re: A spin off of JL's post...	cincsu	06/25/08 03:41 PM

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