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Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls....
      06/25/08 07:50 PM

Does your wife know how you feel? Have you shared these feelings in front of the counselor when you went to counseling? If you have and she has not considered them and felt uncomfortable enough to want to change then maybe divorce is the best thing. However, if she is verbally abusive now in the marriage and has a negative reaction to a divorce then get ready for it to get very ugly and in most cases the children do get dragged in. However, maybe she is just as miserable and wants out also.

Was there a time in your marriage where you were not unhappy? If so maybe she is just as unhappy as you and somehow having two children under the age of 3 and working full time takes all the energy out of a marriage.

Are you still in counseling? If so is there any indication that she wants to work on the marriage and save it?

If she wasn't verbally abusive and was more intimate with you would that make you feel less unhappy?

The stress of life itself can really zap a marriage..

I do not have any answers but sometimes getting a divorce works and sometimes it doesn't.

I wish you luck.

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* Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls 06/25/08 04:01 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Debi   06/29/08 08:22 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   06/30/08 07:47 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Debi   07/04/08 10:18 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   07/06/08 12:54 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   06/29/08 06:00 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... HO2   06/30/08 09:53 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   06/30/08 07:53 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... finz   07/01/08 01:51 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   07/02/08 07:51 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... finz   07/11/08 03:29 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   07/11/08 07:26 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Buckeye   07/15/08 06:57 PM
. * * update Lovemygirls   08/03/08 10:51 AM
. * * Re: update MaritimeGuy   08/05/08 07:02 AM
. * * Re: update Lovemygirls   11/22/09 09:41 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... finz   07/15/08 01:03 AM
. * * Good Question Annie7676   07/03/08 05:33 AM
. * * Re: Good Question Lovemygirls   07/03/08 07:02 AM
. * * Re: Good Question Annie7676   07/03/08 07:24 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Sunni3   06/30/08 12:44 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... HO2   06/26/08 10:29 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   06/27/08 07:10 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Annie7676   06/28/08 05:06 AM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Lovemygirls   06/26/08 06:38 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Annie7676   06/26/08 07:33 PM
. * * Re: Afraid of what divorce will do to my girls.... Annie7676   06/25/08 07:50 PM

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