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Re: Okay, a few questions...
      06/25/08 08:14 PM

-----> First, why is the kid even in the ROOM when you and he are speaking about parenting time? Sorry, he might be a bad Dad, she might be an evil stepmom, but that is even MORE reason to keep him out of it.

When did I say my son was in the room? When I get on the phone with ex my son goes to his room. I don't even have to tell him to go to his room. He just goes because that's how it has been for years.

----->Second, Dads response seems to be REASONABLE, it was a mistake, he sent SM to get the cake, she blew it (whether on purpose or on accident), he SEEMS to want to rectify it, why wouldn't you CORRECT the child for being mad at Dad, because he was most likely WORKING to pay SUPPORT when the cake was bought?

My son's dad has not worked in years. Go back and read my post. When he works its side jobs under the table. He did not pay CS for 12 1/2 years. He was ordered to start paying CS in September. He did pay september, october, November, and December. Since then he has paid nothing. Wow 4 monthes CS in 13 years!!

----->I am NOT defending him, just asking why you immediately placed the blame on Dad, and then seemed to SUPPORT the child's ager and hatred? There are going to be people who do thoughtless things in life, we have to teach our kids to get past it.

How did I say it was dad's fault? I never said that. I told my son his dad loves him. I have told him for years that his dad loves him.

Actually since Septmeber his dad has been doing alot better. He has not missed a visit and answers when J calls now. Ex spending time with J is what's important and I'm glad he finally relizes that.

It's his wife that I'm angry at. Why else would I title this thread EVIL STEPMOM? It does not say evil dad or evil ex.

Honestly my son backtalking his dad and stepmom is not my business. It's for his dad to deal with. When ex does and says things to J, J has to deal with it. Same goes when J says or does something to ex.

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