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TGSM
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Should I respond or just let it go?

06/26/08 08:42 AM

I have been wrestling with a question and maybe you guys can help me out. When we got the CS check almost two weeks ago, there was a letter from BM attached. Very short, but she wanted to thank us for saving the seats at SS's graduation. She realized that if we had not, they would have been standing in the back. She also actually APOLOGIZED (I know freaky huh?), she apologized for not introducing her husband to me. She actually said, "Tell Shannon I am sorry." I just about fell out of my chair you guys...first time ever she has done something like this (apologize to either one of us.)

So I have been thinking about what to do. Should I answer her and thank her for the apology? Should I just ignore it and let it go? I mean we are done have to "pretend" to be nice to each for the sake of the kids. However, I was raised with manners and my instinct tells me I should respond appropriately?

For those who don't know the history, BM and I have never liked each other. She for the most part has pretended I don't exist. Anyhoo, if you want more info, let me know.

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Should I respond or just let it go?	TGSM	06/26/08 08:42 AM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	inloveagain	06/26/08 02:16 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	Tweeby	06/26/08 02:29 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	inloveagain	06/26/08 04:03 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	Tweeby	06/26/08 06:01 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	BB1	06/26/08 03:14 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	Tweeby	06/26/08 03:22 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	BB1	06/26/08 01:11 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	Avaya	06/26/08 12:52 PM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	Spring	06/26/08 08:49 AM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	rschiller	06/26/08 09:12 AM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	JennyLynn	06/26/08 08:44 AM
Re: Should I respond or just let it go?	elliesmom	06/26/08 08:49 AM

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