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cincsu
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Re: No the courts are not interested

06/26/08 04:22 PM

sounds like a good deal to me if all the parents are happy....he got a huge reduction in CS which may now be able to allow him to not live with his mother. it doesn't sound like from what you've said he's really losing anything with your son since he never participated anyway. now you have it in writing you can do what you want. he may regret it one day, but as you said he didn't have to sign the papers. he could have agreed to go to jail or begun his new job months ago to pay something.

the only question i have is for how long the $300 per month for CS will be in effect? what if he goes out in 6 months and gets a job paying $45k per year and you are struggling. what would happen then? can you ask for more? do you have to go back to joint legal custody, etc etc?

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wife of 1, mother of 2, stepmother of .3475902453

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It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 02:58 PM
Re: It's settled!	Runswithscissors	06/26/08 03:56 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:57 PM
Re: It's settled!	matilda	06/26/08 03:47 PM
Re: It's settled!	1966Gal	06/26/08 03:46 PM
Re: It's settled!	Runswithscissors	06/26/08 04:01 PM
Re: It's settled!	Tweeby	06/26/08 03:49 PM
Re: It's settled!	Laineann	06/26/08 03:12 PM
Re: It's settled!	BB1	06/26/08 03:05 PM
Re: It's settled!	PrincessJ	06/26/08 03:02 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 03:01 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 03:03 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 03:08 PM
Re: It's settled!	Runswithscissors	06/26/08 03:55 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 04:16 PM
Re: It's settled!	katiefedup	06/26/08 04:20 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 03:09 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 03:12 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:21 PM
Re: It's settled!	MTmom	06/26/08 03:25 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:27 PM
Re: It's settled!	agui667	06/26/08 03:18 PM
It's decision making!!!!	Melody	06/26/08 03:52 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 03:30 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:35 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 03:40 PM
Re: It's settled!	MTmom	06/26/08 03:40 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:52 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 04:02 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 04:07 PM
Re: It's settled!	PrincessJ	06/26/08 04:09 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:58 PM
They are separate issues	Melody	06/26/08 04:06 PM
Re: They are separate issues	Cassie23	06/26/08 04:09 PM
Re: They are separate issues	preemiemom	06/26/08 04:19 PM
No the courts are not interested	Melody	06/26/08 04:12 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	Cassie23	06/26/08 04:17 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	preemiemom	06/26/08 04:20 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	youngatheart	06/26/08 04:20 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:20 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	rschiller	06/26/08 04:46 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:52 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	cincsu	06/26/08 05:18 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	katiefedup	06/26/08 04:55 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	cincsu	06/26/08 05:13 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:19 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	cincsu	06/26/08 04:22 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:25 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	cincsu	06/26/08 04:39 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:23 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	Reilly	06/26/08 05:17 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	Cassie23	06/26/08 06:13 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 06:41 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	Cassie23	06/26/08 07:24 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 07:26 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	Cassie23	06/26/08 07:30 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 07:35 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	Cassie23	06/26/08 07:37 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	JennyLynn	06/26/08 07:38 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	katiefedup	06/26/08 04:25 PM
I thought the order is merely	Melody	06/26/08 05:18 PM
Re: I thought the order is merely	katiefedup	06/26/08 05:46 PM
Re: No the courts are not interested	cincsu	06/26/08 04:24 PM
Re: It's settled!	MTmom	06/26/08 03:55 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:40 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:48 PM
Re: It's settled!	agui667	06/26/08 03:38 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:41 PM
He DIDN"T relinquish his rights	Melody	06/26/08 03:55 PM
Re: He DIDN"T relinquish his rights	Cassie23	06/26/08 04:01 PM
Re: He DIDN"T relinquish his rights	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:57 PM
Yup...sorry	Melody	06/26/08 04:03 PM
Re: It's settled!	PrincessJ	06/26/08 03:45 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:46 PM
Re: It's settled!	PrincessJ	06/26/08 03:48 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:54 PM
Re: It's settled!	agui667	06/26/08 03:44 PM
Re: It's settled!	Spring	06/26/08 03:59 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:16 PM
Re: It's settled!	Spring	06/26/08 04:19 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 04:20 PM
Re: It's settled!	Spring	06/26/08 04:23 PM
Re: It's settled!	BB1	06/26/08 03:47 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 03:46 PM
Re: It's settled!	JennyLynn	06/26/08 03:45 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 03:21 PM
Re: It's settled!	BB1	06/26/08 03:20 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:24 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 03:30 PM
Re: It's settled!	BB1	06/26/08 03:26 PM
Re: It's settled!	PrincessJ	06/26/08 03:33 PM
Re: It's settled!	youngatheart	06/26/08 03:18 PM
Re: It's settled!	preemiemom	06/26/08 03:19 PM
Re: It's settled!	Tweeby	06/26/08 03:08 PM
Re: It's settled!	MaritimeGuy	06/26/08 03:01 PM
Re: It's settled!	Cassie23	06/26/08 03:00 PM

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