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Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now?
      07/03/08 10:00 PM

Regarding the mortgage payment...yes, you are responsible for the payment being made, and if you move out and he doesn't make the payment, you will be held accountable as much as he. However, you will also have rent to pay for you to have a place to live, just like he has a mortage payment to have a place to live. Would he pay half of your rent? Likely, no, but it is a good argument. Would he be willing to ruin his credit and lose his house by not paying the entire mortage? Just a couple of things to think about.

My stbx and I separated and our mortage payment was twice my rent. We took the total of the two combined and then decided to split the cost in comparison to what we both make. It came out in my favor, so instead of working out temporary child support during our separation, we called it even. Obviously my situation differs from yours, but it was a fair way to work things.

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* Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80 07/02/08 09:07 PM
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. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/03/08 08:57 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? kaestu   07/03/08 10:00 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/04/08 04:05 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? icwal   07/05/08 09:30 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/06/08 05:19 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? motorboater   07/07/08 02:30 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/07/08 09:26 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? stuckinarut   07/08/08 07:35 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? finz   07/09/08 04:25 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? stuckinarut   07/09/08 05:28 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? icwal   07/19/08 10:18 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? stuckinarut   07/20/08 09:45 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Maury   07/20/08 09:46 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/09/08 10:51 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? finz   07/10/08 05:13 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? icwal   07/07/08 12:40 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? finz   07/04/08 06:35 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/04/08 09:29 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Buckeye   07/04/08 06:37 PM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? finz   07/03/08 06:16 AM
. * * Re: Husband has a girlfriend.... what now? Margaret80   07/03/08 08:38 PM

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