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Re: Living in a nightmare
      08/04/08 10:49 PM

In hind sight I should have just had him removed from the house as soon as i was served with divoce papers. But I was worried it would affect the yournger kids. Until I got away from the situation and could see it for what it was, I realised I should have just given him the divorce. What I did not put in the first post was that after I got away from him he followed me into the living room and continued to call me names and taunt me saying go ahead and hit me. I hate you I hate you go ahead and hit me. He wanted me to hit so he could keep his precious house. He has also admited to me (in mediation so it can not be used in court) that he is only keeping this going because if I have the kids he would have to pay child support. he will do anything to not have to pay. I have told him I dont want his money all I want are my kids. And that does not mean he would not see them. Our schedules work so that he has them during the day and I have them at night. It is very equal. But he wont agree to anything on paper. he knows if we go to court my chances are reduce significantly for custody. He has a daughter in Calif that he has never paid suport for. He told her mother he would go to jail before he would pay. He also now has a new baby (from the affair) and he is refusing to pay for this one also.

And he DID get out of hand!

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* Living in a nightmare mullan 08/04/08 02:17 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare DeeCee   08/23/08 09:01 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare stuckinarut   08/25/08 02:41 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/25/08 06:08 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/25/08 05:24 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/04/08 10:35 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   08/30/08 10:27 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 10:55 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 11:46 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 01:49 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 12:28 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   09/02/08 02:48 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 02:04 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 06:12 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/02/08 05:55 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare matart1   09/02/08 04:14 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare I_am_YesDad   09/23/08 07:22 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 03:06 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 02:13 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   09/03/08 02:52 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/03/08 03:27 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Miranda   09/07/08 09:14 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare almostheaven   09/09/08 01:21 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare rogerisright   09/23/08 06:10 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare rogerisright   09/23/08 06:07 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare momus2   09/02/08 04:29 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   09/02/08 06:15 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare suzynj   08/17/08 12:17 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:49 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare motorboater   08/09/08 07:17 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/09/08 10:48 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/09/08 03:20 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare BeckaLeigh   08/04/08 10:58 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 11:08 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:52 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/04/08 02:23 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Cayteax   08/04/08 02:30 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Relayer   08/04/08 06:45 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:05 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Misslisa1017   08/09/08 10:02 AM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:14 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:19 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:23 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare mullan   08/04/08 10:25 PM
. * * Re: Living in a nightmare Maury   08/04/08 10:47 PM

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