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08/19/08 11:42 AM
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Is there any case where a woman claims abuse that you might actually believe? I'm not being a smart ass here; I'm legitimately asking the question. I have seen you post responses where you express an understanding and compassion for a situation, but when it comes to abuse situations you seem predisposed to NOT believe it occurred. Of course, I'm coming from my own experiences which cause me to give someone the benefit of the doubt.
So what's the deal? What makes you think a claim is bogus as opposed to truthful? FTR, I'm not trying to convert your way of thinking, I'm merely trying to understand a view that is the polar opposite of my own. [/quote]
I think it happens but I don't think it happens in the frequency reported here. I also do not think verbal abuse is abuse. No one is holding you there. I think it is used way too often as false ammo in divorce proceedings. And then, what consitutes abuse? I myself was a victim of domestic violence in a horrible manner but when someone starts a conversation about not getting CS or that they are in disagreement about parenting time and 3 post later, all of a sudden, the husband abused her, I simply dont believe it happened. Not one bit. I am quite sure they had an OP issued but did so on the advice of their lawyer or friend who did it.
I would say a majority of claims, on and off the board, are false.
And a good number of times, the poster could very well have started it herself and I believe a person has a right to defend themselves. However, the law does not see it that way. If you are a man, and your spouse has a scratch on her, you are going to jail. I took many beatings knowing that and didn't fight back at all and all I have to show from that are a couple of deep scars on my face..the cops saw the cuts and blood on the wall and gave me a dometic violence brochure not one but twice..I finally called them after the 30th beating or so
yet....
I was subject to an OP and loss of my kids for 6 months because I said "fnck" to my ex from a hospital bed during an arugement.
I also know FIRST HAND if you are male, the county domestic abuse force will do little or nothing to help you.
If someone really had the crap beat out of them, it would be the first order of business. And I think OP's for verbal stuff is totally ridiculous and meant to enrich the legal profession
As a victim myself, I can tell if it really happened or not.
And the excuse of "I didn't want to put all my dirty laundry etc" out there right away is a BS excuse and DV would be the first order of business.
I can tell which are real and which aren't, simply by the tone of the writing. And of course, women NEVER start it or even do it to men.
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